Who played the waiting game??

[mystified]

I try to tell myself that I am the bigger person, that God has a plan for me, that it is not important what others do wrong and I am not here to judge them, and "so what" if he cheats on me, all that is important is that I am living right. I tell myself that the truth will be revealed one day, because no one can cover their tracks forever and to keep my own nose clean and in the meantime, live right, and do good.

 

I tell myself all of these things....however, it is so hard,and my patience is wearing thin. How do some of you do it? Play the waiting game?

[Mz. Pixie]

I think there is alot to what you're saying.....

 

Do you have reason to suspect that your s/o is cheating? If so, how about you give us more details?

[catgirl1927]

If you really think he's cheating, don't wait. You're just wasting your own time.

[tikigods]

I agree why wait? Why not cut your losses and go and find someone that you can be sure of

[Pyro]

I try to tell myself that I am the bigger person, that God has a plan for me, that it is not important what others do wrong and I am not here to judge them, and "so what" if he cheats on me, all that is important is that I am living right. I tell myself that the truth will be revealed one day, because no one can cover their tracks forever and to keep my own nose clean and in the meantime, live right, and do good.

 

I tell myself all of these things....however, it is so hard,and my patience is wearing thin. How do some of you do it? Play the waiting game?

 

I believe that if he is cheating, he will eventually get caught. Karma is out there. If it does get to the point to where your patience goes out the door, then you should move on. Why stay in the relationship if it is going to stress you out? Good luck.