Guest Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 iam 20 years old, a virgin and have a problem.i dont have any real freinds and rarely ever leave the house to go out and have fun even on the weekends when im off from work. alot of people have told me that im a pretty damn good looking guy but i rarely ever speak unless i have to. ive had this speech impedement since forever, when im nervous wich i constantly am always stutter or mumble my words. very often have to repeat myself. i absolutley dread talking to people at work with all this loud machinery around.even so i have really hard time responding to questions and striking up conversations even with other guys, so i have an even harder time talking to a girl i like.i just never know what to say to people.does anyone else have a problem like mine, say if you met someone like me one day and found this out about them would you think thet they're kinda weird, and what do you girls think if a guy like this asked you out. PLEASE!!! if you have any personal experinces like this or with somone you know any advice or opinions would be greatly apreciated THANK YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 I honestly don't have any experience with your problem. I can try to give you some advice though. Have you tried to join maybe somekind of hobbie or something so you can met people. How about becoming friends with come coworkers or something? It is hard to meet people. You can always try online. Sometimes that can work out for people. It just might work out for you. Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Well so far online dating isnt' working for me but thats because I suck at it! That being said agnf666 has a good point. Online you can meet people online and send them e-mails etc which help you get to know them. Later you maybe move to phone and then meeting. As I said its an ongoing process for me and I've learnt that you have to be careful how deep and honest you are not because we should be shallow of superficial but more because it is easy to get carried away by the moment and you should get to know them first. Also its far too easy to misinterpret wach other and not fully understand what the other is writing. Its not like real world where you know the person behind the words. Overall I think it a good option though for someone who is shy and interverted. I think once you get talking to people your confidence will build. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 Don't worry your not the only one that has issues with the online thing! It all depends on how much of yourself you put out online for other's to get to know. Online Message boards and stuff like that are great for shy people... Since I'm shy I can tell you right off the bat that I have got to know alot of people on here and other boards as well... Link to post Share on other sites
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