confused

[mandy]

i have been with my fiance for over 2 years now. tell me if i am being irrational or down right freaky(as he puts it).

 

one day "bud" came home and told me this hot chick at college named karen asked him if she could use him in her lab. he said he snubbed her. then i found an email account of his and found her email in his address book. so i e mailed her saying it was "bud" and to e mail back. nothing fancy, just plain and simple. i really just wanted to see what she would write. i was pissed at "bud" so i told him i found her e mail and had e mailed her. he was pissed, telling me the olny reason he got her e mail was because he was with his friends and he wanted to look like a stud in front of them(hes 25 years of age). he threatened to dump me if i still had these sick delusions that he was cheating on me. anyway, he changed his password and this week i decided to hack into it just to see if there was any romance on line. i found only one thing, an e mail from "bud" to her saying he wanted to get to know her better and that he would like to go for a hike sometime with her. i told him i found it and that he was a dick. and that i deserved better then this #####. he said he only wrote it because he was pissed at me and that was his way of getting me back for e mailing her. he also said he has nothing to do with her, shes not his type and that he would never cheat on me. what do you think and what do you think i should do?

[cinsi]

stop meddling in his stuff! If he is cheating, you will be able to tell in other ways besides snooping. would you like him snooping around behind your back?

 

It sounds like you are looking really hard for a reason to be mad at him.

i have been with my fiance for over 2 years now. tell me if i am being irrational or down right freaky(as he puts it). one day "bud" came home and told me this hot chick at college named karen asked him if she could use him in her lab. he said he snubbed her. then i found an email account of his and found her email in his address book. so i e mailed her saying it was "bud" and to e mail back. nothing fancy, just plain and simple. i really just wanted to see what she would write. i was pissed at "bud" so i told him i found her e mail and had e mailed her. he was pissed, telling me the olny reason he got her e mail was because he was with his friends and he wanted to look like a stud in front of them(hes 25 years of age). he threatened to dump me if i still had these sick delusions that he was cheating on me. anyway, he changed his password and this week i decided to hack into it just to see if there was any romance on line. i found only one thing, an e mail from "bud" to her saying he wanted to get to know her better and that he would like to go for a hike sometime with her. i told him i found it and that he was a dick. and that i deserved better then this #####. he said he only wrote it because he was pissed at me and that was his way of getting me back for e mailing her. he also said he has nothing to do with her, shes not his type and that he would never cheat on me. what do you think and what do you think i should do?