DEPRESS!!

[Sarah]

Sometimes i don't know why i don't have friends. Maybe I am not attractive enough. I know it is strange for a girl not having a bf at all at the age of 22, i am really not that ugly, what's wrong? Is it because i never try to take the intiatives? Sometimes I want to have a real good friend to share my feelings, but i just can't find one. Sometimes I just want to have a few friends, who like music and singing, gather together to sing, to play instruments and to share our feelings. But i can't find the way. Many things appear to be a dream for me. Am i the only one who can't bear the loneliness anymore? i feel like having a bomb in my body. Am i aso afraid that it may brust sometime in the future. Maybe i am too pessimistic..or maybe that's my fate. Can anyone sugguest ways that may change this situation?

[arthropod]

what are some activities you truly enjoy doing?? maybe you can find groups in your area (through the internet or local paper) who share the same interests.

 

i wouldn't concentrate so hard on trying to FIND friends. you need to be yourself, do the things you enjoy doing, and people will come to you!

 

and, a book recommendation for you -- "God on a harley". i'm not an extremely religious person, but i HIGHLY recommend this book!

 

hang in there, i think almost everyone goes through these phases in life. the BIGGEST thing is to KNOW that you will get through it!

Sometimes i don't know why i don't have friends. Maybe I am not attractive enough. I know it is strange for a girl not having a bf at all at the age of 22, i am really not that ugly, what's wrong? Is it because i never try to take the intiatives? Sometimes I want to have a real good friend to share my feelings, but i just can't find one. Sometimes I just want to have a few friends, who like music and singing, gather together to sing, to play instruments and to share our feelings. But i can't find the way. Many things appear to be a dream for me. Am i the only one who can't bear the loneliness anymore? i feel like having a bomb in my body. Am i aso afraid that it may brust sometime in the future. Maybe i am too pessimistic..or maybe that's my fate. Can anyone sugguest ways that may change this situation?