scottishgirl Posted April 21, 2006 Share Posted April 21, 2006 im going through a break up/divorce with my husband right now, there is no nastyness or bitterness, althout it might come yet. however i left him and went to stay back with my parents till i got a house sorted out, i took our 3 year old, since i dont work and ex does, i now have a new place to live but no money or belongings, i went back to the house and took my personal things, ornaments,pictures etc but i couldnt face taking things that ex would need, people are giving me a hard time saying im being soft and should have taken what i needed since i left him the house. i just couldnt do it, let him come home to a half empty house, its not my style id rather build up the things i need slowly. however my father bought us a big plasma screen tv recently and a new washing machine and bed, he (dad) wants me to take them to my new place because he says although he bought them as a joint gift it was mainly for me since im his daughter. so am i being too soft, should i take things and feel guilty or should i just do as im doing and forget the moaners! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 Dear Scottish, Good morning. I am recently seperated, and living in the house. This is our second marriage. My wife has taken most of the furniture, as I feel she should have. Keep in mind, we have no young children. You have a young child to take care of. Your husband should well be aware of that. Just My Opinion, Eddie PS Best of Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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