husband will not have sex... WHAT?

[Just lovin him]

Hello, I would really appreciate some insight. Okay, here's my story...my husband and I are highschool sweethearts and have now been with one another for a total of 17 years. About 12 years of that was miserable (we didn't get along at all) but I still loved him very much so I didn't leave. About 8 months ago, I moved out (he said he didn't love me anymore). After about 3 months he asked me to come home. I was so happy, I missed him so much. He told me that he loved me and me being gone just showed him how much. Through some casual conversations he told me he was with another women while we were separated. He said that being with her taught him that he needed to grow up and be more realistic. He also decided the "grass wasn't greener on the other side". So what's my dilema??? Before we separated he was in the mood all of the time...ALWAYS!!! We are now back together and have the best relationship we've ever had and he doesn't seem to want me. I have enrolled in school, lost 50lbs. and now am able to have multiple orgasms, WTF! Today he came home and I was feeling very sexual. He used his mouth to give me some pleasure but when I asked him if I could have him in me, he said he wasn't in the mood.