Unsure

[lewiswilde]

So last Saturday I went to my exboyfriend's first ever art show. I wasn't even going to go because my most recent ex was going to be there, but he begged me to go, said how important it was for me to be there, called me that day, etc etc. It apparently was very important to him, and I was glad. I mean, we had been in an 8 month relationship when we ended things and it was very hard for both of us, so it meant a lot to me that me being there to support him meant so much to him.

 

Anyhow, at the show we talked quite a lot, since it had been the first time I had seen him in about five months, and were really just happy to see each other as friends. A few of my friends noticed that he was paying special attention to me, but I really didn't notice it or seem to care. Afterwards we hugged and said we'd hang out whenever he came back from college next.

 

Well, since then we've been talking a lot more...about everyday actually online. And I started to realize that I was thinking about him nearly everyday. And making things for him for when we hang out next.

 

And then it hit me. I think I might be starting to feel something towards him again.

 

At first I was annoyed and just...mad at myself almost. But the more I thought about it the more I realized that most of the problems we had are problems that we've both solved on our own while we were apart. That we've both grown a lot and changed. That maybe...well, maybe it could work a second time around.

 

The thing is, I don't know if he would even feel the same way. I know he obviously cares for me as a person and wants to spend time with me, but I'm not sure if he'd want to take it there again. I'm just kind of insecure and nervous about it. I don't really know what I should do.

 

Help maybe?

[Guest]

just tell him how you feel.

[GB111]

Just keep doing what you're doing and see if anything comes of it.