Thomas Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 Ladies..do you have any tips for us? Anything that we do/don't do that you wish we would/not do? can you tell us what you want or don't want about SEX tips for guys Link to post Share on other sites
Daisy Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 More foreplay. And more of the little romantic things ... like holding hands, little kisses, compliments, flowers every now and then. Link to post Share on other sites
Denise Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 As far as in bed... I have one word for you: FOREPLAY!!! Link to post Share on other sites
witchbreed Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 Be romantic at least sometimes. Most of us just love cuddles and not only when you want sex, but just for the sake of cuddles too. Pay honest compliments, appreciate what we do. If we are in a bad mood(bad day at work, troubles with friends or relatives ...), just let us air it out - we usually dont really want advice then, just someone who listens! Bring along a little gift once in a while, does not have to be expensive (a favorite chocolate bar, a paperback, a special drink she likes, a single red rose, a bunch of wild flowers, ...) - what we really love about those little gifts is, that we know you have been thinking about us. Let the bath in, when she comes home from a hard days work, offer her a massage, just spoil her in little ways. When it comes to sex, foreplay is important. Dont forget that our whole bodies like to be caressed, not just the private parts! And cuddle after sex, tell her how much you love her, maybe says THANKS. Last but not least, be clean when you come to bed. Dont just wear sloppy clothes at home - get something which is comfy AND nice. Thats a way to show respect to ones mate. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 hi witchbreed, i once had a boyfriend who said "thanks" after sex. i kind of felt like i'd just given him a service, if you know what i mean. one of the nicest things i had an ex say to me (apart from "i love you") was "thank you for being you". now THAT made me feel like he was appreciative of everything i am and how i made him feel. p.s. no offence to the "thanks" comment of your post! i thought your post was a very informative and spot-on, girl's point of view Link to post Share on other sites
witchbreed Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 Hi Miss Mojo Yep, I guess it could be taken that way. Anyway my bf and me both sometimes THANK each other and it gives a buzz to both of us. And yeah, THE THANKS FOR BEING YOU is one of the best comments to feel truly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Laurynn Posted October 6, 2001 Share Posted October 6, 2001 Tips for Men 1. Don't wear your work boots to bed, despite the fact that they may or may not give better traction. 2. Don't wear socks to bed. A real romantic turn-off. 3. If you want your gal to perform oral sex on you, for the love of Pete, make sure you're clean and fresh. If that means having a shower before bed, then so be it! 4. Have fresh breath (read: brush your teeth) before getting into bed. There is nothing, and I mean NOTHING more disgusting and unromantic than swappin' spit with a guy who has jungle breath. 5. Wash your hands after going to the bathroom (particularly after taking a dump). I know this SHOULD go without saying, but I can recall a number of guys I've been in long term relationships with who didn't know this particularl hygiene practice. Double Yuck. If you have dirty hands, you creep me out and don't think you're going to touch me. Now go wash your hands! 6. Don't wake me up in the morning, wanting sex, when I have a bladder that's the size of Milwaukee. Maybe it's different for men, but a woman can hardly enjoy a roll in the sheets if her teeth are about to float. 7. Don't kiss like you're a St Bernard Dog with rabies (foaming at the mouth). If I want my face washed, I'll do that myself. 8. Don't think that every little kiss and hug MUST lead to sex. There is nothing more sexy than a guy kissing or hugging a girl "for no reason"......when physical contact is ONLY initiated by the guy for the sole purposes of getting laid, it's about as unromantic as a trip to the store for Tampons. 9. The best way into a woman's pants is through her heart. Take the time to show her that she's more to you than just a vagina. Romance her in little yet thoughtful ways: love notes tucked inside her shoe/purse/pockets/stuck to the sun visor of her car/taped to her steering wheel....surprise her by making dinner, even if it's just Kraft Dinner and weiners......surprise her with her favorite dessert/chocolate bar/milkshake/cup of tea, etc.......leave a romantic message on her voicemail during the day, just to let her know you're thinking about her.......suggest you get a picture taken of the two of you, so that you can have that picture to keep in your wallet/on your desk at work. Imagination, imagination, imagination. When a woman feels loved/special/needed/desired/admired/appreciated, the relationship is so much better, and when that's the case, intimacy and sex are so much better. Laurynn Link to post Share on other sites
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