Guest Posted April 24, 2006 Share Posted April 24, 2006 Im in the worst situation ever. me and this guy have been friends for 5 years now, and we liked each other in elementry school but never dated. then he moved to down town Toronto, 45 min from where i live. i see him less often, and i would like other people and he was just my friend. one month ago he told me he was moving to florida- to live. i was so shocked. hes unlike anyone ive ever met..on the outside ppl may think hes tough..but hes such a gentleman..and hes so philisophical. i love how he thinks. he came up on friday and we had the best time. Theres one problem. the girl he hooked up with last time he came here likes him..and im not sure if he likes her..even though he acts as if he likes me. hes not the type to flirt with everyone either. the next morning we went on a walk, and he bought me a gorgeous pink rose. He didnt mention anything about liking me..nor did he make a move on me, but he was hugging me, holding hands etc. he promised he wud come up and see me again before he leaves to florida..but im in love with him and i cant stop thinking about him. my friend sais i should just ask him out for the last 2 months...but if i tell him i like him..what happens if he doesnt like me? what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
oloik Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 im in the same situation too except ive only known him for about 4 years... and we've only been friends but then he said that he was going to a different highschool i was freaking out! i couldnt loose him! but then he said that hisparents were making him go to my highhscool soo i was happy thena few weeks later he annouces that he's moving to VIRGINIA!!!!!!!! i think you should tell him if its the way it sounds like he should love you back ^^ Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 oloik, welcome! My advice to both of you is to voice your concerns and tell them how you feel. Personally I think it is childhood friends leaving which is making you miss them ahead of what you really feel. What you two feel maybe love, maybe lonliness, or fear of losing a friend. Having been thru this myself many times, I still think of a few friends and even a childhood sweetheart. Just enjoy the time with each other for now. In my opinion, friends come and go; I think you two have "friendly" gestures toward each your friends. Just my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
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