Poor guy Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 me and my gf have been together with 8 years. Differences have arisen and i think we are better off leaving each other. So i proposed Now i feel very bad. perhaps i should have accepted our differences or compromised. There is true love in 8 years time. is it my fault? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 You have given insufficient data here for anyone to intelligently answer your post. You proposed what? Marriage or breaking up. If you proposed breaking up, you did the right thing. Being with someone you're not happy with for eight years does not mean true love. It often means a person is just too much or a coward to break up and too lazy to look for someone more compatible. More details, please! Link to post Share on other sites
Girl Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 If the two of you are great match, it isn't easy at all to maintain a relationship. You shouldn't give up with true love. I'm now feeling the pain of " will we break-up soon" no, never, that is too unkind. Differences happen between every single pair of couples, if you love her, get her back, surely she will be crying waiting for you. Don't let her be alone for so long, she needs you, you've become part of her life through the years. It's not about whether or not habitual, it's about losing the major piece of your heart, see the wound? Link to post Share on other sites
Girl Posted October 4, 2001 Share Posted October 4, 2001 If the two of you are great match, it isn't easy at all to maintain a relationship. You shouldn't give up with true love. I'm now feeling the pain of " will we break-up soon" no, never, that is too unkind. Differences happen between every single pair of couples, if you love her, get her back, surely she will be crying waiting for you. Don't let her be alone for so long, she needs you, you've become part of her life through the years. It's not about whether or not habitual, it's about losing the major piece of your heart, see the wound? Link to post Share on other sites
Laurynn Posted October 6, 2001 Share Posted October 6, 2001 Now why would someone post a question here, then use a different name to ANSWER THEMSELF? (as "Girl" did). Maybe this person with cyber-multiple personality disorder thinks we're not catching on to their goofing around here, and abusing this forum. For those of you who know how to do a 'view source' on posts, do it....it will save you wasting your time responding to someone who's using different names, sometimes pretending to be a woman, sometimes pretending to be a man. Loser! If the two of you are great match, it isn't easy at all to maintain a relationship. You shouldn't give up with true love. I'm now feeling the pain of " will we break-up soon" no, never, that is too unkind. Differences happen between every single pair of couples, if you love her, get her back, surely she will be crying waiting for you. Don't let her be alone for so long, she needs you, you've become part of her life through the years. It's not about whether or not habitual, it's about losing the major piece of your heart, see the wound? Link to post Share on other sites
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