tranceaddict Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 in comparison with extroverts?? Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 I dunno! Only ever been out with one and now we're married. It did take a bit more "courage" to ask her out, however. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 in comparison with extroverts?? If you are *both* introverted people, then it may make for a long night. If you happen to date an introverted girl, then keeping the conversation going will be most likely be on your shoulders most of the night. At least, till she feels comfortable enough to open up. Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 I guess the problem is that introverted girls don't express themselves as much as us loud mouth extroverts (who are secretly introverts pushing the boundaries of their comfort zones LOL!). The problem is that an introvert might not respond the way you'd expect. It could seem like you are doing all the work and they aren't replying. ever had that - you send all the e-mails, you initiate phone calls and they don't talk much. Thing is an introverted girl can really be enjoying themselves but you're thinking do they like me? Are they bored? Why won't they say something? It depends on how much reassurance you need from a relationship. I know that for one thing I'd be rather scared of an highly extrovert woman! I think finding a balance is good and as two people go out they grow more together so the introvert will slowly come out and the extrovert may calm down. Just a thought. Link to post Share on other sites
TeaCooler Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 maybe she'd be better to "stay in" with? Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 Someone else in the world likes 17 Seconds? Who knew? Link to post Share on other sites
TravelLight Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 For gawds sake B4R, I really don't need to be seeing that picture in your avatar. (For the record, because he will undoubtetly change it, Burning4Revenge has a picture of an execution in his avatar). The last thing I need to see in my state is that. It's bad enough when it's shown on TV. For the post, it depends. Introverted to the point of...unable to communicate. Then, no. It can be very frustrating. Being a bit reserved and shy though can be alluring. I err to this side rather than the obnoxious, lager fulled ladette that is all you seem to meet when you go out thesedays. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tranceaddict Posted April 25, 2006 Author Share Posted April 25, 2006 PMSL ^^ thats f*KD Link to post Share on other sites
Admiral Thrawn Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 I think the activities should be different. An introvert is best to look at movies together, or watch something on TV, and maybe just eat popcorn or pizza and cuddle through. There are board games, chess, or a variety of other activities that could be engaged in without talking that much. I dont date that much, and most of the people I've dated, or hung out with, whatever you call it, are somewhere between introvert/extrovert. They are not chatter boxes, but they are not silent all the time either. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 If you are *both* introverted people, then it may make for a long night. If you happen to date an introverted girl, then keeping the conversation going will be most likely be on your shoulders most of the night. At least, till she feels comfortable enough to open up. I agree with this, I'm an introverted guy myself even though I'm the one who is confident enough to start conversations. Dating an introverted girl will take about 50-100% more energy/patience than dealing with a more extroverted girl. Yeah you gotta do most of the leading, what's wrong I already said you'll be expending 50-100% more energy. If you are gonna be lazy about it, give up and date outgoing girls. You should know they value things what you present outside than inside. Be forewarned though, just because a girl is "introverted" does not mean she is a nice innocent girl. Most of them that I've met either have a mean streak or are very perverted. You want the perverted ones, don't worry dude the shy girls will start taking about penises and sexual stuff REAL soon, if they do it means THEY TRUST YOU. But this doesn't mean you can start hugging and putting your hand down her pants like extrovert girls, they want to be taken passionately with your mouth sucking on their neck as you firmly grab hard of her neck and lick her body all over. Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 You want the perverted ones, don't worry dude the shy girls will start taking about penises and sexual stuff REAL soon, if they do it means THEY TRUST YOU. But this doesn't mean you can start hugging and putting your hand down her pants like extrovert girls, they want to be taken passionately with your mouth sucking on their neck as you firmly grab hard of her neck and lick her body all over. LOL are you trying to turn us on or do you have a side hobby writing soft porn films? You never fail to make me laugh 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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