taylor3205 Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 This forum was a great help for me when i went through a break up with my partner. Used to comfort me in my depths of despair. Me and my parnter broke up last October. He ended up movin in with somebody else and we were apart for 6 months. I allways thought he was the one for me and it was hell on earth coping with it all, we were together for 7 years. Anyway it turns out that he was also having a rough time of it and ended up missing me just as much as I missed him. Well we are now together again. We spent 6 months apart with the last 4 months having no contact whatsoever. I thought it would be hard coping with the fact that he has been intimate with somebody else but in the great scheme of things it is nothing at all, his heart is with me and mine with him and thats all that counts, life is too short. It is like we have started dating all over again. It is great. I think the time apart has helped both of us decide what we really want out of life although I was not looking at it like that when we were apart. Im just glad were back together. It has made us appreciate each other a lot more and made us realise what we have together is too much to let go of. I dont resent what he did one little bit, it has made our relationship stronger than it has ever been. Not sure why I am posting this, I guess I just wanted to let you all know second chances can and do happen and if its meant to be it will be. Link to post Share on other sites
riobikini Posted April 25, 2006 Share Posted April 25, 2006 First, thank you for posting that, I'm sure it's the most looked-for kind of post in this section. And I congratulate you on your reunion. I also am glad you posted certain details along with your info -especially #1) the length of time you were together, which demonstrates that the time invested that cultivates stronger, more mature feelings are a key factor in second chances, #2) the fact you went through a good period of 'NC', which gave you time to know you actually were ready for a second chance, and #3) that it was the *both* of you who were 'pro' on the second chance idea, -not just one hotly pursuing the other. Those are all prime factors. Again, -good luck and congrats!!! (Smile) -Rio Link to post Share on other sites
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