What now??? Was I wrong??/

[amber26]

Hi,

My name is Amber and I am new to this site. My first time. I just didn't know who to turn to with my problem. Its not an easy thing to talk about with friends and family. Here is my story....

My husband works out of town alot. With working out of town there is always opprutunity. He has always enjoyed looking at porn online and going to strip clubs. With the online stuff I figured no harm. With the strip clubs I have never agreed with it. The thought of another woman around my husband the way they are in strip clubs just does not sit well with me. Anyways. I had thought he had cheated on me because I found something he had written about almost cheating but then backing out. I figured if he could almost cheat what was stopping him. This happened well over a year ago. I unhooked the internet and he ended up staying in town for a while so I thought I had nothing to worry about. Internet got hooked back up. I noticed whenever I would walk into the room he would click off of pages real fast. Or only get online late at night when I was going to bed. I checked the history on our computer and found that he had been going to online dating services. he had several profiles set up on different sites. All saying he was in a relationship which was a start. He also had opened his own email account seperate from mine. Wanting to know what he was up to I put a free trial of a key logger onto our computer. Within 24 hours I had his passwords to all of his accounts. I checked his emails and dating service profiles of who he had been talking to. With alot of the sites. Women join free but men have to pay. So i joined the sites as a made up cyber girl and started emailing him asking him if he wanted to chat. It didn't take long and he was emailing me little sex stories. He even told me a couple about times he has been with other women. (while out of town). I have continued this online relationship with him over the past couple of months. He has asked to meet the cyber girl and I have put him off saying I was not ready to meet. He has also asked for phone calls. This online affair is still going on and I don't know what to do. The fact that he has no idea that it is me he is talking to tells me that he would have these conversations with women online and that he would like to meet them or talk to them on the phone. Is this cheating? should I confront him with this? should I confront him with the other cheating stories he told his cyber girl?? Was it wrong of me to start emailing him under another name?? HELP PLEASE. I don't know what to do!!!!