alicibiades Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 Why is it that everyother post here is a novel-length sob story? Who here is cheating and loving it? Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 What is this the new advert for McDonalds? "Can I get some fries with that shake" LOL I think you got your answer - there are perfectly happy and healthy people on here (sort of ) why would they want to brag about being unfaithful? Bad question to ask... like they say mud sticks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alicibiades Posted April 26, 2006 Author Share Posted April 26, 2006 Well that is one answer. But I'd like others to speak up too. I don't think it's a bad question at all. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 Well that is one answer. But I'd like others to speak up too. I don't think it's a bad question at all. I don't think its a bad question either being that we all post on here asking questions about certain things. However, I think the real question is, Why do you feel you need to know how others feel that are cheating? Are you hoping that if others reply that they feel good about their cheating that it will justify what you're doing more? Jade Link to post Share on other sites
prfrogkisser Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 I don't think its a bad question either being that we all post on here asking questions about certain things. However, I think the real question is, Why do you feel you need to know how others feel that are cheating? Are you hoping that if others reply that they feel good about their cheating that it will justify what you're doing more? Jade The purpose of this site is for people to share situations,doubts and feelings. We as humans want to relate to people who are going through our same situation. Even if deep inside they know what we are doing is not right...but who are we to judge. We look for advice, a form of venting or just another point of view. ****Criticism can be a good thing when offered with kind words in a loving, helpful tone**** Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 The purpose of this site is for people to share situations,doubts and feelings. We as humans want to relate to people who are going through our same situation. Even if deep inside they know what we are doing is not right...but who are we to judge. We look for advice, a form of venting or just another point of view. ****Criticism can be a good thing when offered with kind words in a loving, helpful tone**** Read his website. He has a link in another post. It's all about his sorted affairs. He brags about how he gets some all the time. When his wife's asleep, he goes looking for girls. It's actually pretty annoying his site. I couldn't even finish reading it. He looks for girls to send him pictures of themselves so he can see if they're suitable enough to 'bang'. Doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing is wrong.. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 Read his website. He has a link in another post. It's all about his sorted affairs. He brags about how he gets some all the time. When his wife's asleep, he goes looking for girls. It's actually pretty annoying his site. I couldn't even finish reading it. He looks for girls to send him pictures of themselves so he can see if they're suitable enough to 'bang'. Doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing is wrong.. Where is this link? I looked but didn't find it. After reading some of what you said he does, I'm sure that will make a big differnce in the answers he seeks/receives. Link to post Share on other sites
prfrogkisser Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 Read his website. He has a link in another post. It's all about his sorted affairs. He brags about how he gets some all the time. When his wife's asleep, he goes looking for girls. It's actually pretty annoying his site. I couldn't even finish reading it. He looks for girls to send him pictures of themselves so he can see if they're suitable enough to 'bang'. Doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing is wrong.. Well thanks for the info and clarification. Ive been around this type:mad:. Im sure what goes around comes around. Deep inside he is unhappy only he knows. Playing the game never last forever. I saw a CSI episode on a guy with this kind of behavior. It didnt have a happy ending:D Link to post Share on other sites
catgirl1927 Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 I bet he's a troll. I bet none of it is true and he's just making it up online so people will get all upset and he can laugh at them. There are a lot of really, really sad people like that. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 I don't think its a bad question either being that we all post on here asking questions about certain things. However, I think the real question is, Why do you feel you need to know how others feel that are cheating? Are you hoping that if others reply that they feel good about their cheating that it will justify what you're doing more? Jade I think your questions to him are good. Its no different than others posting asking a question. Be intersting to see if he returns to answer. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 Read his website. He has a link in another post. There's a man who dared to dream. Who spoke for everything he believed in. "Please. I might be a s*** writer and totally lacking in any original fantasy material, but has it stopped me from soliciting people to peruse the inner ramblings of my mind. As God be my witness, I shall continue relentlessly in my quest to find indications that I exist" You do exist...you do!! It's true, it's true, it's true! Sound the trumpets and bang the drums, because you're nothing less than an inspiration in a world that needs at least one million more mediocrities to start up blogs and endlessly spam websites in search of readers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alicibiades Posted April 27, 2006 Author Share Posted April 27, 2006 Don't be so quick to dismiss my honest curiosity about peoples good experiences cheating. This board, is about cheating. As is the other one about infidelity in the marriage section, as such my question is not out of place, as it would be on say a forum about childrearing. I've asked a question to others, for whom having an affair was a positive experience. Just because all you biddies come here to comiserate does not mean that this is the soul purpose of this forum. I should be able to ask a straightforward question regarding cheating without the ho-ha. If I want to seek out others that share my viewpoint, so be it. A forum on infidelity seems like a natural place to start, does it not? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 youv'e done it ! Youv'e used the words CHEATING BIDDIES and HO HAS all in one paragraph .Well done. Link to post Share on other sites
aleatoryd Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 LMAO is this guy for real? But he does have a point IF he is going to find anyone who will share his viewpoint it will be in these sections of the forum. Oh yeah I read some of the blog now... it's not something I agree with but he has right to his opinion. If we don't agree with him I suggest we don't post on his threads. Then maybe he'd go away LOL! Sorry couldn't resist! Link to post Share on other sites
Author alicibiades Posted April 27, 2006 Author Share Posted April 27, 2006 Reading now, I meant to say sole purpose, not soul purpose. Aletoryd: I appreciate the sentiment. It takes all kinds... Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Walked into a fire station the other day, looking for someone who enjoys lighting fires. Couldn't understand the reaction, those biddies gave me so much ho-ha; they were so unwelcoming. It says "Fire Station" right there over the door, I should be able to ask a straightforward question about fires. Just couldn't understand it.... ____________________________________________ tinktronik - I couldn't credibly work "cheating" in there, but I got "biddies" and "ho-ha" into the same sentence. You gotta give me some credit there, eh? Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 This is kind of like Jeffrey Dahmer going onto a cooking website and asking if anyone out there has had a positive experience eating human kidneys Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Walked into a fire station the other day, looking for someone who enjoys lighting fires. Couldn't understand the reaction, those biddies gave me so much ho-ha; they were so unwelcoming. It says "Fire Station" right there over the door, I should be able to ask a straightforward question about fires. Just couldn't understand it.... ____________________________________________ tinktronik - I couldn't credibly work "cheating" in there, but I got "biddies" and "ho-ha" into the same sentence. You gotta give me some credit there, eh? I like you! Link to post Share on other sites
little_girl Posted May 28, 2006 Share Posted May 28, 2006 Why is it that everyother post here is a novel-length sob story? Who here is cheating and loving it? i am, & i'm loving it! Link to post Share on other sites
stacey2005 Posted May 28, 2006 Share Posted May 28, 2006 I've put myself into a tricky situation that I'm not sure how to handle. My partner and I have been together for 2 years, engaged for the last 9 months. For the last 6 months we've been trying to have a baby with fertility help as I'm 42. Obviously this puts strain on any relationship and my partner has recently been finding it more and more difficult to have sex on the prescribed days. As a result, our normally healthy and happy sex life has become rather strained and lacking. A week ago, I found out that he has recently been active on a website dedicated to finding other sexual partners. I signed onto this website with a pseudonym and have engaged him in a rather explicit ongoing dialogue. Of course, he doesn't know its me and I'm not sure how to continue with this lie and what to do about an eventual meeting, should it happen. Should I keep quiet, confront him or trap him?? Please help! Any advice would be much appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted May 28, 2006 Share Posted May 28, 2006 Walked into a fire station the other day, looking for someone who enjoys lighting fires. Couldn't understand the reaction, those biddies gave me so much ho-ha; they were so unwelcoming. It says "Fire Station" right there over the door, I should be able to ask a straightforward question about fires. Just couldn't understand it.... that is awesome. I wonder how far we could go with this... Link to post Share on other sites
witabix Posted May 28, 2006 Share Posted May 28, 2006 I got great recipes for cocktails at an AA meeting........ Link to post Share on other sites
ronnieromance Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 Whiskey. Tango. Foxtrot. -R- Link to post Share on other sites
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