francis Posted April 26, 2006 Share Posted April 26, 2006 it's practically a year since he broke up with me, we were LDR but have maintained contact through email and occasional SMS since, up to this day. It has been hard, I've tried to make it work with another guy but haven't been able to get over my ex When I have suggested a reconciliation in the past, my ex has avoided talking about his feelings, just saying 'i just want you to finish uni'. he has also provided me with financial support and sent gifts, including a birthday present. i am about to complete my degree in a few weeks. i have been applying to jobs in his country, he even sent off some postal applications on my behalf when i asked him to. he just agreed to post them without any other comment. when i tell him how i feel about him, he doesnt respond. i have made it clear that i want a reconciliation when i graduate. when he asked me about my plans following graduation, i replied 'i'm coming to your country so that we can finally make plans for our future'. before breaking up, we discussed marriage. he didn't respond to this, but continues the platonic emailing. when i stop replying to his emails, he keeps sending me cute news stories, asks a random question about something i may know about etc, he insists on contact. so, the question i am asking is this; should i wait for him to instigate any reconciliation? or should i ask him directly how he feels about reconciliation and continue making plans to be in his country? Link to post Share on other sites
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