Author Wicked Wanda Posted May 5, 2006 Author Share Posted May 5, 2006 I keep saying that I must have been a very bad person in another life for this to be happening to me now. Or if it was not for bad luck I would have no luck at all.... Karma, it's right there with the others... Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 WW.... I certainly ponder that thought!! I sometimes think, that perhaps this is something I really needed! I'm not quite sure what right now because I'm in process. Maybe once I have moved through it all, there will be something HUGE in it for me. *BIG HUG* Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wicked Wanda Posted May 6, 2006 Author Share Posted May 6, 2006 For me, I do believe in "what goes around, comes around", (karma). I would like to think at some point people feel the wrath of their selfishness. I do realize we have choices and as the OW, I could have chosen not to involve myself and I also know the reason why I did! "Selfish". However, I did also choose to stop the A and believe I have suffered terribly and therefore got what I deserved. Had he? Not even close! Do you think that you were the selfish one? I'm leaning towards the H and ultimately the W. If she had given him everything he ever wanted and needed, he would not be looking elsewhere. Unless you had some other motive, I don't think I would call you the selfish one but ultimately, you are right, we are the ones who suffer more than they do. I apply your "goes around" rule to them as well... eventually, they will set their sights on someone who is really bad news and finally get what they deserve... I am trying not to be that person, but I may probably resort to it... Link to post Share on other sites
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