patr0 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 So about a month ago, i meet this really buetifull girl at one of my freinds party. i talked to her and we had eye contact going on. she left early because she is mormon and her father was calling her so i shook her hand good bye. two weeks later i call her out of the blue and ask her to prom. She quickly said, yes. I tell her wow, really? and she said yeah itll be fun. I was thinking she would say no. later that week we text each other(not allowed to talk on the phone past 8 for her.) a week after that, i go to her house and she pays no attention to me but pays attention to my freind who invited her to the party that night. I then learn that she has kissed 37 guys and she uses them. Me being kinda piss that im just going to be an other number and going to be used.(im paying for prom tickets and dinner)So i leave her a text saying 37 guys huh? she leaves me a message saying that it was only kissing and that she is not a slut. I dont reply and just forget about it. So yesterday me and my freinds were playing some soft ball. She calls my freind to see what hes doing and she comes to play too. She dosent even say hi to me and i didnt say hi. she just starts playing. so i later then text her to reply to her voice mail. "im not freaked out just surprized. i dont know why i cared at first" I see her at school but she dosent say a thing to me or look at me. Its vary awkward. I did wave bye to her as i was leaving the school parking lot and she waved back. I just dont understand her. Or maybe its something im doing wrong. I dont date many girls or hang out with them so i wouldnt know. Our prom is next saturday if this continues on its going to be weird what should i do? am i being played? Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 Nope she doesnt like you. She's trying to persue a relationship with your buddy and you know this. BTW, she has trouble engraved on her forehead. I'd leave her alone before you get hurt or something. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 3, 2006 Share Posted May 3, 2006 Mixed signals are bad. She calls you and texts you, but God forbid she talks to you in person. I'm surprised she's willing to go to prom with you...that's very public stuff. Next time you see her and you're with your friend try talking to her and see what happens. If she ignores you again then I'd find someone else to go to prom with. Link to post Share on other sites
ratzskinakie Posted May 3, 2006 Share Posted May 3, 2006 Maybe you should engage in talking to her too? I mean, your the one who asked her out, Maybe she is wondering why you wont talk to her? if some person asked me out, then never approach to talk to me agian, then that be wierd. I known girls who are somewhat similar to that, like this mormon girl who made out with 19 guys in one school year. but she was just wierd, her thought process just amazes me how humans can be wierd. she was hot, super smart in school, but she acted like she was stupid and ignorant. Link to post Share on other sites
Author patr0 Posted May 5, 2006 Author Share Posted May 5, 2006 well when we do see each other at school its during the 5 mins to get to class. she usually waves hello to me and i point back and wave hi to her. Today i saw her come out of the bathroom and stoped so she could catch up to me asked how much year books were even though i knew how they are. then asked her what class she has and she said psycology. then the the split in the hallway came and we just walked our seperate ways i turned back and say cya later and she said bye. I want to get closer to her but just dont know what to do.It just feels awkward when around her. When i see her with freinds it seems like she is talking up a storm. I guess this is all my fault for not getting to know her before i asked her to prom. what ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author patr0 Posted May 9, 2006 Author Share Posted May 9, 2006 Well i have good news and bad news.prom was fun, i was expecting it to be a little werid but it turned out great. I danced with her got close to her for a while. we did not kiss tho. In a way i wanted to kiss her but then again i dont want to be a number. Bad news is pretty much i wont ever hang out with her/talk to her again. I mailed her because she got her phone taken away in class. in the mail i pretty much told that i really enjoyed going to prom with her and hanging out with her at after prom was fun too. i didnt get to say bye to you because i got lost at the party. Call me sometime. She later mails me saying that she had fun too and that she is too busy to even text me. I pretty much know her shechedule and it is a really busy shchedule. But would a person who is interested in you find time to text/call you? So my question is, is that a sign that she wants nothing to do with me? In a way this girl has changed my life. I have been excerseing alot and i think i have found a new hobie. Guess ill just take my new hobie and move along. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Well i have good news and bad news.prom was fun, i was expecting it to be a little werid but it turned out great. I danced with her got close to her for a while. we did not kiss tho. In a way i wanted to kiss her but then again i dont want to be a number. Bad news is pretty much i wont ever hang out with her/talk to her again. I mailed her because she got her phone taken away in class. in the mail i pretty much told that i really enjoyed going to prom with her and hanging out with her at after prom was fun too. i didnt get to say bye to you because i got lost at the party. Call me sometime. She later mails me saying that she had fun too and that she is too busy to even text me. I pretty much know her shechedule and it is a really busy shchedule. But would a person who is interested in you find time to text/call you? So my question is, is that a sign that she wants nothing to do with me? In a way this girl has changed my life. I have been excerseing alot and i think i have found a new hobie. Guess ill just take my new hobie and move along. Glad to hear that you had a great time and that she actually showed up. I'd move on. I think if someone is interested in you they can make time to text you. Besides I kind of have a feeling that you're not really into her. I mean you had an opportunity to kiss her and you decided against it. I don't know if she's a skank or not, but obviously you can't get past the numbers thing. If anything I wouldn't mind having her as a friend. Not a very close friend, but a friend wouldn't be bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Author patr0 Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 Well i didnt really have the oppurtunity to kiss her. We left early to get ice cream so we missed all the slow dances. I wanted to slow dance with her so i could. (my freinds wanted to leave and her freind was my freinds date so you know..) I guess your right i should move on, but this girl makes me feel werid. I cant explain it but it i never felt like this. Im always thinking about her and in a way it hurts when i dont see her or talk to her. When i do see her or talk to her that pain goes away. It most likely infatuation. This feeling has only happen 2 two girls i was interested in. my freind i knew since i was 5 and now this girl. Ill give her the end of this week to see if she even texts/calls/messages me. Link to post Share on other sites
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