Alynna Posted October 6, 2001 Share Posted October 6, 2001 there was this guy named matt that i was (and still am) totally in love with. we started going out in November(2000) and it was so amazing. i had had other boyfriends that i liked, but matt was my first love. the truth is, that until i met matt the farthest i had ever gone with a guy was kissing, and by kissing i mean quick four to five second kissing at the most. but, with matt there was this huge physical attraction that i had never felt before. after a few months we started having sex. i thought it was a good idea, but now he has left for college and i miss him a lot. and, since i never see him anymore i am begining to get some of my logic back and i guess i'm starting to question whether it was a good or bad idea to have premarital sex. because before matt i was totally set against premarital sex, but i guess i just made an exception for him. the two of us are still together and i still love him very much, but i'm wondering if it is normal for me to be having these doubts. thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted October 6, 2001 Share Posted October 6, 2001 Thoughts are not normal or abnormal. They are just thoughts. Everyday, people question their judgements but you can't undue the past so the best thing to do is resolve to be OK with it. Remember, every action has consequences. When you do something, anticipate those consequences and don't do things you think you'll regret. Sex and chocolate are in categories all by themselves. People indulge quite often and later wish they hadn't. Don't worry about it. I personally see nothing wrong with what you did. But you, and not anyone else on planet Earth, are the one who is going to have to get comfortable with your decision. Link to post Share on other sites
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