100percentDave Posted April 28, 2006 Share Posted April 28, 2006 Age old tale, girl at work... I've been working there for about a month and a half now, and I didn't really notice her at first but I've been thinking about her an awful lot lately, although I don't know what to do with the current sum total of words between us standing at about 4... I sit near her on breaks, we both sit alone at seperate tables, I've been thinking of going over and talking to her, but I then think, if I go talk to her out of the blue, she'll just assume I'm a dude that wants in her pants, and then be closedminded to me. As far as signals go I've picked up on her messing with her hair and kind of fidgeting when we cross and sort of avoiding eye contact, which I'm guessing means either she's nervous, or that she is trying to put me off, kinda one extreme or the other... Any help or advice would be appreciated greatly Thanks, Dave. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 Playing with her hair or avoiding eye contact does not mean she's not interested. They are signs of interest. You need to be bold and let her know you like her. Don't feel if you show interest she will be upset or blow you off. Women like a guy who shows interest even if she doesn't feel the same way. I would add that dating at work is dicey so you might ask yourself if this girl is worth the risk of things being awkward if she says no. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 If you've only exchanged four words then sit and talk with her. You might decide she is not dating material after all. Being new at a company it won't seem like a bar pick-up - just a new employee getting to know others. BTW: its not a good idea to date a co-worker!! Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 BTW: its not a good idea to date a co-worker!! I second that. It is very awkward when dating and potentially weird when it does not work out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 100percentDave Posted April 29, 2006 Author Share Posted April 29, 2006 Yeah, I know its not really the best idea, however, I think she has applied for a new job in the office, and I am leaving in a month or 2 to go to uni, or try and get into a different career path. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 After her transfer or you goto a uni. Give her a call. Link to post Share on other sites
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