T_Bone Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 Well, I dont really know how to explain it so I will get right to the point. I Recently moved and now don't know anybody in my area. I go to the gym everyday In hopes of meeting new people but I am just too scared to go up and start a conversation with anyone... Specially girls. I recently got out of a two year relationship so I have experience talkin with girls,(Obviously) It's just I am in a total new enviroment so I feel like I dont know what to say or what to talk about. There is a couple of girls I wouldnt mind talking to or to get to know but I just dont know what to say to get a conversation going.. I guess I need some examples of small talk or conversation starters. If anyone has ANY ADVICE it would be helpfull. Link to post Share on other sites
luvtoto Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 Well, I dont really know how to explain it so I will get right to the point. I Recently moved and now don't know anybody in my area. I go to the gym everyday In hopes of meeting new people but I am just too scared to go up and start a conversation with anyone... Specially girls. I recently got out of a two year relationship so I have experience talkin with girls,(Obviously) It's just I am in a total new enviroment so I feel like I dont know what to say or what to talk about. There is a couple of girls I wouldnt mind talking to or to get to know but I just dont know what to say to get a conversation going.. I guess I need some examples of small talk or conversation starters. If anyone has ANY ADVICE it would be helpfull. Whatever you do...don't brag to women about things you own or are gonna own in the near future. Some men think that that is the way to a woman's heart. It's a deal breaker for me. I would suggest open ended questions, like "come here often?" haha..no just kidding. I would walk up to her with a compliment or a comment that focuses on her. People love to talk about themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 How about a hello and a nice smile. If they respond and like you as well they will ask you something and then you are on your way to having a conversation. If they don't respond just say, "well, have a nice day" and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
ImWithHim Posted April 29, 2006 Share Posted April 29, 2006 In addition to what was said above, some women may be shy just like you and just respond hello back and then later think, like I often do, "Gah! I blew it. That was my chance to talk to him and I froze and couldn't think of anything to say." So, my suggestion is to say something a little more than "Hey" and flash a smile. I would try to initiate the conversation by saying something to the effect of, "Hey, how're you? I just moved to this city and this seems like a really nice gym." If she's interested, this gives her a good lead in for the obvious follow up question of, "Oh really? Where did you move from?" And there you have it - a good start to a conversation. Good luck. A nice smile does me in every time. Link to post Share on other sites
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