Paranoid Delusions

[staceyboo]

Hi first off let me introduce myself a lil bit... I'm a southern girl, been here all my life... Love to travel as long as I can drive...lol...I soo hate flying...I come from a well rounded family <i think> and I'm the 4th of 5 children, My parents are still together....We are a close family, We are truly blessed. I've been married to a AWESOME GUY for 16 yrs this June, we have 2 children, One is Ours, the other is Mine from a previous marriage...But WE have 2 kids....and have 2 Grandbabies <awesome kids>

Generally I'm a very happy go lucky person, I don't worry about to much, guess I refuse to grow up.. Heck thats no fun... I just take life as it comes, and pretty have huge shoulders, and can take a lot....

 

Now for the reason i'm here, My husband in 2003 had some problems ~ he was thinking that My parents, and brother were trying to plant drugs on him, so they could take our land and sell it... and that our house was bugged, by someone I don't think I ever found out.. He also thought that the Mason's, <group> was plotting against him... He was in Wal-Mart in Dec. Shopping with our son who was I think about 12 at the time... Some coustomer was close to his basket, and he said something to them about trying to plant the drugs in his basket...<wuzz not happening> anyways, I to had been shopping with a friend....and when I got home, the Manager of Wal-mart was here with him... I said my hello's and came inside...My husband came in and said they want to talk to you...I was like okies, Tell me whats going on <because I really had no CLUE> he was going threw this, I told him I don't want any suprises.... He said, I can't talk in here, our kitchen because the House is bugged... well that scared the mess outta me, so outside I went.... Well long story short, they explained what happened, and suggested I take him to the hospital.... So I called my Parents & his Sister and together we all took him to the ER, well they told him that he had some frontal lobe tissue showing up but they were not covinced that this was what was causing his problems and suggested that we take him to CrossRoads, So we did and he did quilify for there, they wanted to admit him, he begged us not to leave him there... and we did not, he went on to see his phyricest and got on Zyprexa and was doing beautifully....he was found with Paranoid Delusions. Now how close is that to the other.

 

 

Now to date.... Really about in September of 05 I had been at work on a Saturday, and came home and suggested we go to the Casino, he did'nt really want to go but did agree to and we went, so I stopped by the store, and got me some cigs and a scratch off, when I got back in the car he says to me, Did you see that guy in there with the rebel flag on his hat, I was like no! and I didn't well he said, He tried to run me off the road the other day, because i'm republican.... I wuzz like WHUT! and i assured him the guy had no idea what political back ground he was! well it rocked on he talked and i talked and I was really just reassuring him that what he was thinking was not true, he mentioned other things too, I just don't really remember them, Mostly that peeps was comming to our house and plundering while we were away... N that he set traps and knew someone had been there when we were at work.. etc...

 

So in November, because of Insurance.... I got his zyprexa refilled, He had been off of it for gosh 2 yrs or so, but that was the first sign to me that he might be having problems again... Ya see he is soooo quiet, and polite to others, he just don't complain or say anything out of the way to peeps... So When I got the meds, he wouldn't take them and of course it did upset me.... he took them back and got the money, and i threw me one fit, so he again agreed to take the meds... so they gave us 7 because the insurance would not pay again in the same month....

 

So today he still has 4 of those 7 pills.... He is turning more to the Religion aspect of things this time, I'm a HUGE BELIEVER in JESUS CHRIST... I know that he is real... this is what scares me, I can't decifer between what is really coming from God and what is comming from his illness.....

 

We just got back from out west, had a WONDERFUL TIME BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY....but he and I did not do much together, we had our Son and our Neice and I spent most of the time with them having fun, and he just kinda was there, but never fussed was very agreeable to do what ever we wanted....but Last night he tells me that the birds showed him the way home! that kinda scared me cause I was sleeping I guess when the birds were around~I'm not sure,

 

He has been with this company for 30 years, he's going to be 51 in June, but they have had calls as to what is wrong with him from his accounts, I did not know this but I called his supervisor because they were aware of his situation before... plus they are dear to our family....and think the WORLD of My Husband

 

So come to find out he is wanting to draw out his pension, pay off our land, buy a new car, etc........ THIS IS SOOO NOT HIM..... He is THE SAVER of this relationship....

 

Basically he mostly just talks off the wall, and at first I was like OH MY GOSH WHAT? thas not true... well after enough times of saying this, he stopped telling me things....

 

I so messed up by doing this, because he hesitates to tell me things now, and I NEED TO KNOW what he is thinking.....

Do any of y'all have any links, advice anything that could help me in how I respond to his comments....

 

there are tons of stories just like everyone elses... that he has told, or done.... I'm sure I'll post more soon....

 

 

I have another Question, what does this mean MALADY I seen that in another topic about a girl, whose boyfriend had gotten something like what My husband has, and it was in reference to Insurance....

 

Also I seen this in the same thread! There are many variables where neurological disease is concerned.

Paranoid Delusions... I dont quiet remember who said what but if you know anything that can help me better understand please do share~

 

Now today, I did get in touch with his phyrist and he is to take the zyprexa threw the weekend, and see him first thing next week!

[Curmudgeon]

A delusional disorder is what used to be called paranoia in psychiatry. His best bet is to stay on the meds and keep his appointment.