Like Him Or Not

[Melissa]

I really like this guy and I really don't know

 

what to do. The only problem is that he has a

 

girlfriend, but he never talks to her. I don't

 

even know why their even going out. I don't

 

think I should talk to him because I don't want

 

to be the reason for their braking up. My

 

friends usually talk to him and we tell each

 

other hey through them. And he keeps telling

 

them that he is going to break up with her but

 

he hasn't yet. I just don't know if I should

 

just give up on him or if I should just wait a

 

little bit.

 

Thanks!!!!

[John]

For one thing, you need to know how serious this guy is about his girlfriend. If they have just started dating, then it might be okay to persue this relationship at a distance. If they have been together for a while, then chances are that this guy really likes his girlfriend, and you shouldn't jeopardize their relationship. Back off for a while, and then if they are still together, drop him. Wait about a month or so to see if he is still the guy that you really want to see, and that it is not just infactuation. If you still feel the same way over time, and he is still with his girlfriend, then you should approach him at a distance, i.e. not calling him, getting friends to talk to him. Other than that, good luck.

I really like this guy and I really don't know what to do. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend, but he never talks to her. I don't even know why their even going out. I don't

 

think I should talk to him because I don't want to be the reason for their braking up. My

 

friends usually talk to him and we tell each

 

other hey through them. And he keeps telling

 

them that he is going to break up with her but he hasn't yet. I just don't know if I should

 

just give up on him or if I should just wait a little bit. Thanks!!!!