Jessie61 Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Sad thing is: he met my kids before I knew that he was married. My bad. I won't trust so easily next time, huh? Walking Away, DON'T kick yourself over this one! How were YOU to know in the circumstances?? And like I said to Movinon before; that says more about HIM than about you! You are not bad. I have read most of your posts and I find that you are capable of great love - not just "romantic" love, but love to people around you! -, you are intelligent, independent, you have a great sense of humour, you are patient and you take time before you give very thought out and considered advice, you are strong but yet brave enough to admit that you feel weak at times... And the list goes on! Are you listening to me???? Yes, you will live and learn, that is all anyone of us can do. And you WILL trust and love again, and that is a good thing! Look forward to it! One of these days some guy somewhere will be the luckiest guy around to have found you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Thanks. I needed that. Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Walking Away, DON'T kick yourself over this one! How were YOU to know in the circumstances?? And like I said to Movinon before; that says more about HIM than about you! You are not bad. I have read most of your posts and I find that you are capable of great love - not just "romantic" love, but love to people around you! -, you are intelligent, independent, you have a great sense of humour, you are patient and you take time before you give very thought out and considered advice, you are strong but yet brave enough to admit that you feel weak at times... And the list goes on! Are you listening to me???? Yes, you will live and learn, that is all anyone of us can do. And you WILL trust and love again, and that is a good thing! Look forward to it! One of these days some guy somewhere will be the luckiest guy around to have found you!!! Jessie is bang on WA. You are amazing! xMM is the one who decieved you. He's the one who hid his status from you from the start. He probably knew if he was honest, you wouldn't give him the time of day. He probably knew you well enough by the time you introduced him to your children that if you knew he were married, you would have not introduced them to him. I think that he was being manipulative from day one! Poo poo on him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 5, 2006 Author Share Posted May 5, 2006 Jessie.... Jewelry too! Man! Did I ever get cheated!! The only thing close to symbolizing a ring in my A was the ring in my ears "dumb", "dumb".......lol Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie61 Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 Jessie.... Jewelry too! Man! Did I ever get cheated!! The only thing close to symbolizing a ring in my A was the ring in my ears "dumb", "dumb".......lol RC, You are hilarious!!!! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Wicked Wanda Posted May 5, 2006 Share Posted May 5, 2006 WOW! Lots of hurt here! Blair was not extravangant. His arrangement (with himself) was one dinner out paid by him... two in prepared by me... Anything he bought was more with him in mind even though I was the one wearing it! Sometimes a movie, once a broadway style show but not much other than that... Hmmmmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 6, 2006 Author Share Posted May 6, 2006 WW... No kidding! Dido on that! Jeepers! Some of the "OW"'s here have experienced a heck of alot more than I. That's got to be tough! Link to post Share on other sites
stillhere Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 Sorry i'm a little late in this subject! I get flowers here and there, but he usually gives me money. He gives me money for gas and to help pay my bills cuz i'm doing it on my own now. At least he's giving me something i can use, not just look at. He nows i hate to take the money, so he'll hide it in my truck or the house. Link to post Share on other sites
Wicked Wanda Posted May 6, 2006 Share Posted May 6, 2006 WW... No kidding! Dido on that! Jeepers! Some of the "OW"'s here have experienced a heck of alot more than I. That's got to be tough! We must have been bad little girls at one point in our lives... Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 We must have been bad little girls at one point in our lives... I don't think so at all. I think we got sucked in by these nasty ass-oles. I think that we are nice women who got taken advantage of. Link to post Share on other sites
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