thromback Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 Hey, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am 16 years old I am the president of an anti-drug club in my school. I do martial arts, surf, longboard-skateboard, snowboard, wakeboard, and kneeboard. My big concern is that any girls who have liked me these past two years all eithier drink or smoke too much. I don't mind a little drinknig here and there; but smoking is just gross. These group of girls I used to be good friends with have jus recently been kinda well how can I put this; disrespectful. I asked them politely whenver they bitch about how they are in trouble for drugs why they even do it and I get "You never even got drunk or tried drugs you wouldn't udnerstand." I became friends with these group of girls from some girls I dated, in fact I'm going ot jr prom with one. It seems liek they only don't like me because I don't liek to drink or do drugs, I love gonig to parties, but they say that why go if you not gonna do it. I'm not a mean guy or a toolbox or anything even though I sound like one now. My main thing is girls who do drugs I can't trust, but girls who don't do drugs (at least in my school) are all boring. I feel as if there is nobody out there at this point in my life, until I go to college. I know nothing serious ever comes out of highschool relationships, but I just want one. Every girl always says they don't know when I'm joking or not which might mean why many girls don't approach me. I am told that I am "intiminating" from every girl who I have dated as a first impression and that "I'm funny" but they can't tell when I joke or not. My personality is just joking around nothing I can do about it, would like girls to take me more seriously and the non "druggie girls" would like me more (that are a good time). The problem is I don't dress like a toolbox with gotti hair and popped collars, so that eliminates any "normal girl" I dress and and interested in surfing and longboardin, but just feel I can't connect with any girls but the ones who do drugs :/. I am not like an ugly guy or anything in fact I get compliments, but It's only from the "slut or drug" girls. any help or suggestions??? Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 Dude, get a life. Link to post Share on other sites
djrdei Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 Dude im a 22/m and I do not smoke or drink and I expect to find the same in a girl. If you think its bad now in high school, wait till they get to college. I swear every girl my age is only interested in partin and anything that has to do with drinking. It just really bothers me that this is all these girls want to do and it seems like all the guys who drink/smoke/do drugs get the girls and I dont. So insteda of drinking or smoking I focus my time and money towards my car, which is something that meansa lot to me. Im like a perfect student, great grades, have a good job and great family life but I just cant find a girl. Oh well....maybe once they are all grown out of their partyin stage they will notice me. Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 I think you should take another look at the girls who aren't into drugs. Maybe there is more than meets the eye and they are not all boring. Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 The problem is I don't dress like a toolbox with gotti hair and popped collars, so that eliminates any "normal girl" I dress and and interested in surfing and longboardin, but just feel I can't connect with any girls but the ones who do drugs :/. I am not like an ugly guy or anything in fact I get compliments, but It's only from the "slut or drug" girls. any help or suggestions??? You do seem to have your priorities straight. Now, don't waver. Girls will be girls. When you are in college, you will have a bigger pool of girls to choose from. There is a cap to every bottle... Link to post Share on other sites
TheSwordfish Posted May 2, 2006 Share Posted May 2, 2006 Interesting, i don't drink and don't smoke. Some girls just love it, others are turned off because they think I'm boring (well if they've seen me clubbing they know I'm not). Girls drinking too much bother me though, they can be a pain in the ass. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thromback Posted May 3, 2006 Author Share Posted May 3, 2006 Dude, get a life. Thanks for that. I guess I don't have a life by asking a question.... but if you are posting on this forum you cant say get a life, you are not any cooler or better than anybody else, so please keep your comments to yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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