Anne Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 a few days ago, my bf says he wants to break up with me. He said it's too difficult to keep our relationship as I am engaged to another one. I've been engaged for 2 years (by my parents) but was about to break it due to my bf. But he wants to leave... according to him, he really loves me so he decided breakup. is it possible? can't understand guys Link to post Share on other sites
witchbreed Posted October 8, 2001 Share Posted October 8, 2001 You dont understand guys? I dont know how long you and your bf have been together, but if I were in love with someone and that someone is engaged to someone else and hasnt yet broken up that engagement for our relationsship, I would be scared to be strung along. I would be scared of getting hurt and maybe scared that somewhere in the future you would cheat on me without telling, like you are cheating now on your fiance without telling him. If you do not love your fiance and its just your parents choice, for gods sake brake this engagement. I dont know if it will bring your bf back - it might, but not a 100%. But to stay in an engagement when your heart is not involved is unfair on all concerned. Break this up, see if you can reconcile with your bf, having cleared the table and if that wont work, at least you will be free to find someone in your future, where there is mutual love and trust. Wish you luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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