almostthere Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 My bf and his exwife have been divorced 8 months before we met. Him and his exwife continued to sleep together until 3 weeks before he met me. me and my bf became friends and stayed just friends for 5 months. He says he didnt sleep with her during this time. We have beena couple now for 9months. up until 2 months ago they were fighting on a daily basis. even when he knew she wasnt calling about the kids he still answered the phone to have this fight. and it wasnt like he was saying anything to her. just mostly listening. she would yell and he would give a few words for an answer. he hasnt told her ever of the severity of our relationship. never told her we were living together. she was left to assume this. he has left me at his house while he jumped in the car and went over to her house to argue in person for sometimes more then an hour. I have been asked to leave his house so she could come over and they could fight. I wasnt allowed to be there when she was picking up or dropping off the kids because he "didnt want the headache from her yelling". i cant come with when he drops off or picks up the kids and she is no longer allowed to come to his house when i am there to drop off or pick up the kids since she said that they slept together this past january. he tells me now that she disgusts him, he hates her, he thinks shes dirty and nasty and ugly. she used to call him all the time to ask for him back. this just stopped to my knowledge anyway about 2 months ago. all the time as in 2 to 3 times a day. he has told her once that he is in love with me. but not since then. i am not even sure if she knows we are moving in together in June. which is important because they have kids together. she should have an address to where her kids are right? I dont know...it all seems to weird to me. opinions please.... Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted May 4, 2006 Share Posted May 4, 2006 It sounds like he is still more married to her then he is involved with you. There should be no reason to hide you at all. If she goes that nutso that often she will continue to do so. You are taking on a huge amount of baggage here with him. If it were me I would not move in with him until he stopped acting like he is still married to her. Link to post Share on other sites
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