SSINTENSE Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 So me and my ex had an amazing relationship for 6 months. She is 21 years old and I am 19 years old. We broke up because of the age situation about around February. We didnt talk at all until March, and now we are dating again. She has always been honest with me. But the thing that bothers me is that there is this guy she has had feelings for her who always comes and screws around with her and then ignores her (this has been happening for 8 years). She knows the best course of action she must take in dealing with this guy is to block him off completely, but she said she tried it and he just keeps comin back somehow. She also says that he was her first time for everything, and that it's extremely hard for her to just completely block off a guy. Well not too long ago he came over to her house and they messed around a bit.She told me it happened right after it happened, and told me the details and everything. She said she did it for closure for a bad lie I told her when we started talking again (it had to do with another girl who i dated for a little bit). The thing that hurts the most though about it is that during the relationship she told me she was completely over him. I bring that up to her now and she says she really did think that, but once he started talkin to her again she realized she was in denial. Now I am home for college and I am dating her alot and spending alot of time with her and she really is making a great effort to get this guy away because she knows I am the better pic. She has always been honest with me. We are having great times right now. She tells me that she doesnt want to get into another relationship until she is sure that he wont interfere with anything. My question is: should i wait and find out? This is a very stressful to me because I do have deep feelings for her. And this was my first relationship so the breakup was very difficult for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mistaken Identity Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Can't she tell this guy "no"? What does she mean when she says she wants to make sure this guy won't interefere with anything? How long will that take? Why is she so passive? Link to post Share on other sites
pinokano Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Hey Man what are you doing with this girl? If she is still even considering this other guy, then it is time for you to say good bye. Girls that continue to play the field while in a relationship will never be fully commited, I mean how could they if they are still leaving it open at all to the possiblity? Link to post Share on other sites
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