Tland Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 I know this is a somewhat embarassing post, but the mrs. and I have had a really great weekend - sexually. We really connected in a lot of ways. We have a toddler, so these kinds of weekends are great but sometimes rare. Well, after a full weekend, she was interested again...and I really tried to, but I was just too exhausted. I am so afraid I hurt her feelings, and it's kind of embarassing. I know this sounds probably like the craziest thing anyone's ever heard, but it's killing me to think I hurt my wife. Has this ever happened to any other guys out there? I know the media portray men as NEVER being too tired, and maybe I'm just crazy, but I was simply too tired. How did you handle the situation? I feel terrible. Link to post Share on other sites
Presario Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 How did you handle the situation? I feel terrible. I guess you just said that you are sorry and you don't want more. It wasn't an insult. You are supposed to enjoy it too and not to push it and "perform." You are one lucky guy that your wife made you tired of sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tland Posted May 8, 2006 Author Share Posted May 8, 2006 I must agree with you. I am a very lucky guy indeed. I love her very much! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tland Posted May 8, 2006 Author Share Posted May 8, 2006 You are one lucky guy that your wife made you tired of sex. I must agree. I am a very lucky guy. I love my wife deeply. Link to post Share on other sites
carmaenforcer Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Don't feel bad, it's normal to get too tired to perform. I have issue if I have to go to the bathroom or am too full from eating or am just not eager about the routine. I don't know about what most "macho" minded men might say but my mini-me is temperamental and will not work if things are off. I am very confident in my sexual ability so I am not afraid to admit, when there is an issue. Don't be afraid that it might be Errectile Dysfunction or something like that, your just a normal "human" being. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 I'm a man and, yes, sometimes I'm just too tired after a long and full day. My wife understands and certainly doesn't take it personally. Besides, making up for it later can be well worth the wait! Link to post Share on other sites
1Gravity Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 I can't say I've ever been too tired to perform. I'm on the other side where wifey has had numerous excuses to not perform. She could never have sex and be ok with life. I'm a little on the other side of that issue. According to Schnarch (author of passionate marriage), the person who wants the least amount of sex in the relationship controls it. Link to post Share on other sites
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