rentton Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi there I have met the girl of my dreams and we are seeing each other almost 6 months now. I suppose I haven't been too lucky in love and as much as I would like to think that it hadn't affected me I would be lying if I did. My girlfriend is full of confidence and bursting with excitement but at the moment I feel at a low point. I have dated girls before where I have been in control but at the moment I don't have that confident feeling. Maybe it's because she's beautiful, vibrant and sexy. We spend every waking moment with each other but she is in France on business at the moment and it sounds like she's having the time of her life - up at 8am - back to bed at 4am and the same again. This may sound silly but if I get the last text at 1am but she tells me she got to bed at 4am - why not text to say goodnight even? Am I over reacting - am I becoming obsessive? How do I get over my trust issues if this is my true problem?? Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Yes you are being a tad clingy. Have things to do besides worry about your gf. That will help. Link to post Share on other sites
Author rentton Posted May 8, 2006 Author Share Posted May 8, 2006 Cheers Its probably what I needed to hear but wouldnt listen to myself. I still feel I have trust issues and am afraid I will drive her away if she finds out - any advice on that on Girlie Girl? Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 I have the problem of active imagination. I come to boards like these and vent and get it out. Then I am better. I don't burden my bf with my nonsense. As for control, you really don't have control over anyone but yourself. Nothing you do will force someone to be different and if you did what would that mean? People will do what they do and you just have to let go and let them be. Link to post Share on other sites
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