rentton Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi Anyone out there that can give me advice? Im being sent demented cos I haven't got my GF at my side (the last 4 days) - I feel like I have lost a limb and my mind is working overtime with stupid crazy thoughts! R Link to post Share on other sites
IrishCarBomb Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Find a hobby..... just don't make it stalking. Link to post Share on other sites
mscmkr Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 ok, yup we have all felt like that in one way or another. JUST DONT ACT ON IT!!! but one thing, why is your G/F not with you? break up, shes out of town, what? if its a break up you gotta let it go. you gotta move on man. dont jump into something else right away either. bad idea. its gonna get better......mscmkr Link to post Share on other sites
Author rentton Posted May 9, 2006 Author Share Posted May 9, 2006 Cheers man No its not a break - she was in France for four days on a working weekend. I feel like a fool for having the thoughts that I did BUT......I was away on a similar trip a month ago and not trying to sound too imcompetent but she was the first thing I thought of in the morning and the last thing I thought of at night and because of that I texted or rang. When I was out socialising every chick reminded me of her and I would text. Don't get me wrong - I'm not a stalker cos WE are both like that all of the time.........the thing that got to me was that she wasn't like this when SHE was away........which led to stupid insecure thoughts.........which led to me not trusting her in my head........which she has never given me any reason to think!!!! Therefore, am I the fool by over doing it with texts and then expecting them back in return???? Should I lay off a little??? Should I bring this up with her cos she gets back today or should I stay quiet (which is hard for me to do cos I tell her everything).......and there's another question if you're interested - I hate the idea of not sharing my thoughts with her but do you think this is healthy for a relationship???? Maybe some stuff should be held back??? I just feel that if stuff is held back that I'm almost lying about it if it rears it's head at a later date???? R Link to post Share on other sites
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