foreverandaday Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Well Hello. Just wondering if anybody can give me a little advice? Well I'm 21 and my ex girlfriend of two and a half years is 18. We split up at the end of January and it was a mutual decision but she was the one who brought it up. Basically we had become settled in the relationship and with her going to University she thought she was missing out. We did have an amazing relationship, we loved each other ever so much and had some amazing times. We split up for 2months the same time last year but got back together after she realised she missed me. so here goes whats going on. When we first split this time, I would pester her and ring her up and text her telling her how much I loved her and missed her and she didnt want to know. She never texted or emailed me. And if i sw her out she would look very awkard. So I decided to play the NC game. I left her alone and for the last two months and recently on many occasios while I have been out she has been comming up to me and chatting about random stuff Taking pictures of us together, asking on numberous occasions if I want her new number. LAst Sunday I was in a club and she shouted my name and pulled me over to dance. Im playing the polite and cool ex. She has also just started writing me random myspace comments. Now this is all a shock to me as she didnt want to know me 2 months ago. Im in touch with her mother who loves me to bits and misses me as she knows i was good for her daughter. Does my es want me back or want to be friends. Apparantly she has told people that she misses me and would get back in the future. Her mum says she needs to go through this thing. I have not been dating girls but I have been meeting girls while I have been out. But I dont want to make the first move. she told her mum she doesnt want a serious differernt relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
dprelz Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 If she wanted you back, you would know man.. I think she really really cares for you and was honest when you she gave you the reasons why she had to leave. She sounds like a really mature person. My advice is to not try and get her back; but just be nice and if she ever needs your help be there for her. If you get back together now it won't work anyways. I think you need to wait a longer period of time, and let her explore what she wanted to explore. Then later on if you two still love each other, you will be together. There are a million threads on here about breakup up before college. So if you want more angles and info, read up Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 She wants to keep you in her back pocket so you don't forget her. There's something unbearable about dumping someone and having them actually move on. That, and 2 1/2 years is a long time and you both lost a friend in each other. Stop talking about her with her mum, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 yeah, stop dating her mom. and she sounds pretty unsound too, writing randon comments to u in myspace. what is she 12? also my dog died in december and i miss him, too. she misses u the same way. except i prolly loved my dog more. Link to post Share on other sites
Mistaken Identity Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Time and again on these posts, you find that women come around once their man initiates NC. I don't know if it means they want to reconcile or if they're just trying to boost their egos. Why don't you just come right out and ask your ex what she wants? Link to post Share on other sites
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