Is she playing games?

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Please post your comments because I would really like any type of advice or just an idea. Please post it I would love to read it. And remember no idea is a bad idea...

 

Alright I'm a little confused about the situation I am in right about now. None of my friends seem to have an answer or maybe I am not paying them enough attention. But either way I want more opinion on this matter.

 

Ok, so about a week ago I went out to party with 2 of my friends who are girls. One of the girls & me had a thing but thats over with and in the past.

 

So lets call the PAST girl 'Y' and the NEW girl 'Z'

 

Now here is the thing...the other girl "Z" *her friend which I always thought was a hottie all along but never kicked it off because she had a boyfriend. But now she is single and that night she told me how she really felt about me and how attractive she finds me. She told me how could I not read the signs that she was giving off etc. I just replied I thought you were just friendly with me etc etc. so I told her how I really felt about her and things were GREAT.

 

Anyway lets fast forward a little we started talking on the phone(everynight Mon-Wed) and decided to have a date on thursday. The date went great(Dinner/Movies/Romantic stroll by the bay) we talked and convo was great.

 

One of the things she asked me was "How many serious girlfriends have I ever been with?" I replied "One serious one" and she mumbled "Guess I'm the second"... So now I am completely in awe and extremely happy how well this is going.

 

So the day after the date, Friday night was her best friends "Y" birthday dinner. We both told "Y" that we were sorta seeing/dating each other already but "Y" said she don't know if she is ok with it and never really gave a final answer about the situation.

 

So the night started off well (we were holding hands & joking to each other while walking to my car) but later on (after dinner) I got a call from one of my buddies and that he was in trouble. So I wanted to leave but my buddy calls me back and tells me not to worry about it. So I went with the group to a bar. Anyway so in the bar my friend text msg me and he seem sort of upset over the situation so I decided to leave early and talk to him.

 

Here is where the problem arised...I left the bar and called the birthday girl "Y" and told her I left because of blah blah... but I didn't call "Z" to explain to her. I text "Z" later on that night saying I was sorry and explained the situation.

 

So on sat. she called me and I told her over the phone what happen and she said she wasn't mad and she understands. So after about 10min on the phone she wanted to go take a shower and said she will call me back later on. As time passed she finally contacted me but via txt msg saying she was going shopping now and she will call me later. I text her back saying cool and I'm glad she wasn't mad over the situation.

 

The call never came...so the next day I waited figure maybe she was tired from shopping and try to reach her later on. Entire day passes by and no call still...Sunday night I decided to give her a call to see whats up... No one picks up and I left a msg for her to call me back.

 

So entire night there was no msg or a call back. Today is monday and I still got no responce from her. She didn't txt me or call me back at all.

 

Is she mad? Is she playing games? Is she not interested no more?

 

I don't understand...