Tim'sAngel Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 And TA NO! H would NEVER say that. Shoot, I wish! Nope, he's pretty possessive but like KnowHow said it's 'cause I'm so HOTT! So I do try to be understanding. It must be tough to have a wife this hot:lmao: (You all crack me up, you know!) You crack me up Touche!! ALways got something witty and hott to say No wonder hubby is jealous!! HE's got to keep u away from us carpet lanolium luvin biatches!! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 You crack me up Touche!! ALways got something witty and hott to say No wonder hubby is jealous!! HE's got to keep u away from us carpet lanolium luvin biatches!! Aww, thanks TA! But he can forget about it! I'm not giving up my carpet lanolium biatches for anything! Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Oooh, you got your picture back up! Isn't she beautiful, girls?? Touche, you are turning me into a goddamn lesbian!! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Oooh, you got your picture back up! Isn't she beautiful, girls?? Touche, you are turning me into a goddamn lesbian!! Oh, geezzz, stop that KnowHow! Now you're making ME blush! Damn, I'd LOVE to see your picture! Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 You know in all fairness they should make a lesbian room. Call it "Biatches carpet corner" That way us munchers aint gotta hijack other peeps threads Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Oh, geezzz, stop that KnowHow! Now you're making ME blush! Damn, I'd LOVE to see your picture! Ok, I will stop. I was messing with you. Sorry, didn't mean to give you the creeps. To tell you the truth, I am very torn on the inside. I think you remember my story? I have blocked out almost all of my feelings. My husband is being nice to me, but I can't feel it. he's been asking me to go to NYC with him for a weekend... and I have been repeated refusing him. He's mad at me now. ... and the saddest part? I don't even care! I am so sick! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 You know in all fairness they should make a lesbian room. Call it "Biatches carpet corner" That way us munchers aint gotta hijack other peeps threads Great idea TA! You should do that! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Ok, I will stop. I was messing with you. Sorry, didn't mean to give you the creeps. To tell you the truth, I am very torn on the inside. I think you remember my story? I have blocked out almost all of my feelings. My husband is being nice to me, but I can't feel it. he's been asking me to go to NYC with him for a weekend... and I have been repeated refusing him. He's mad at me now. ... and the saddest part? I don't even care! I am so sick! Oh, I'm so sorry, KnowHow. Is there anything I can do to make you feel better? Seriously though, why don't you go with him? Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Oh, I'm so sorry, KnowHow. Is there anything I can do to make you feel better? Seriously though, why don't you go with him? Simple: I don't want to spend every single minute with him for 48+ hours straight! Pretty sad, huh? I know, I'm totally messed up! (I am in love with his bestfriend, and I am trying to not act on it. But my feelings for my husband are all gone.... ) We travel quite often... but for the past 6 months, I've been going by myself. (He's not gone anywhere... said that he doesn't see himself enjoying a trip without me. My husband loves me very much; the kicker is, his best friend also loves me, but respects his friend, too.) So here I am on LS... trying to have some lesbian fun! :lmao: It's not cheating... your H wouldn't be jealous, would he? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Simple: I don't want to spend every single minute with him for 48+ hours straight! Pretty sad, huh? I know, I'm totally messed up! (I am in love with his bestfriend, and I am trying to not act on it. But my feelings for my husband are all gone.... ) We travel quite often... but for the past 6 months, I've been going by myself. (He's not gone anywhere... said that he doesn't see himself enjoying a trip without me. My husband loves me very much; the kicker is, his best friend also loves me, but respects his friend, too.) So here I am on LS... trying to have some lesbian fun! :lmao: It's not cheating... your H wouldn't be jealous, would he? No, this could be good for all of us. It can get your mind off the other guy and H would probably love it! That's sad KnowHow. I hope you don't act on your feelings for this other guy (you can act on your feelings for me instead! ) It doesn't sound like he has much respect though for his friend (your H) if he's revealed these feelings to you. Not much respect at all. So what are you going to do? Is it going to be your H, his buddy or me? But really, what are you going to do? Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 No, this could be good for all of us. It can get your mind off the other guy and H would probably love it! That's sad KnowHow. I hope you don't act on your feelings for this other guy (you can act on your feelings for me instead! ) It doesn't sound like he has much respect though for his friend (your H) if he's revealed these feelings to you. Not much respect at all. So what are you going to do? Is it going to be your H, his buddy or me? But really, what are you going to do? I've been on LS since I've been on NC with him - 5 months!! And that's what I plan to continue doing - not seeing him at all. But them being friends, it's inevitable. We travel so much together, the 4 of us. (BTW, he's married, too.) I have been working on a mantra to drive him out of my thoughts. I am also practicing on how to behave when he comes to visit again. (He lives very far from us, thank God!) I have planned to be cold and distant when he's here again. (He visits us without his wife, usually.) You are probably right about him not respecting my H. But they've been friends since they were in junior high school. I think that there's always been some level of competition between them.... I don't want to cheat on my husband. But I'm also very miserable because I really have no feelings left for my H!! For the past 6 months, I have not taken one single trip with him, only by myself for 2.5 weeks, to a beach resort. On the one hand, I hate what I've turned into. On the other hand, I don't know how to stop feeling this way. And now I must have taken all the fun out this lesbian fest! Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 No, this could be good for all of us. It can get your mind off the other guy and H would probably love it! No, my H would be jealous like your H. He wouldn't like me having an affair, lesbian or otherwise. But it did take my mind off my troubled head! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 I've been on LS since I've been on NC with him - 5 months!! And that's what I plan to continue doing - not seeing him at all. But them being friends, it's inevitable. We travel so much together, the 4 of us. (BTW, he's married, too.) I have been working on a mantra to drive him out of my thoughts. I am also practicing on how to behave when he comes to visit again. (He lives very far from us, thank God!) I have planned to be cold and distant when he's here again. (He visits us without his wife, usually.) You are probably right about him not respecting my H. But they've been friends since they were in junior high school. I think that there's always been some level of competition between them.... I don't want to cheat on my husband. But I'm also very miserable because I really have no feelings left for my H!! For the past 6 months, I have not taken one single trip with him, only by myself for 2.5 weeks, to a beach resort. On the one hand, I hate what I've turned into. On the other hand, I don't know how to stop feeling this way. And now I must have taken all the fun out this lesbian fest! It's ok, KnowHow. Since were lovers now, I will be your shoulder to cry on when life beats you down and when too many men love you. I do admire you for going NC with this guy. I must read up on your story because I've forgotten the particulars. You really should either try to fix it with your H or leave though. It's not fair to either one of you to be miserable like this. Why not try to take this trip to NYC with him. Maybe you can reconnect. It CAN happen. Talk to each other honestly. Have you told him that you fear your losing your connection with him? I really think you should go to ny with him. If not, and you don't really want to try to fix things, you should really think about leaving. Let him be free to love another and be loved. And you can be free to pursue your lesbian dreams. (What a schizoid post!) Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 It's ok, KnowHow. Since were lovers now, I will be your shoulder to cry on when life beats you down and when too many men love you. Aww. Thanks, Touche. I do admire you for going NC with this guy. I must read up on your story because I've forgotten the particulars. No, I wouldn't recommend it. I was in such a fragile state that I was not even making sense on my original post. Also, a lot of posted flamed me... not pretty to read at all. You really should either try to fix it with your H or leave though. It's not fair to either one of you to be miserable like this. Why not try to take this trip to NYC with him. Maybe you can reconnect. It CAN happen. Talk to each other honestly. Have you told him that you fear your losing your connection with him? I really think you should go to ny with him. If not, and you don't really want to try to fix things, you should really think about leaving. Let him be free to love another and be loved. Haha.. It's not so easy. HE is the one holding onto the marriage! He still loves me, and he's being very good lately. He is really trying to woo me all over again. But my heart must have turned into stone - because I just don't feel it. I guess I'm waiting for the spark to come back... and I am laying it all on him. If I should start listing the things he's bought me lately to show his love... you guys would tell me that I'm crazy to not fall for him! Like the roses for Valentines - they cost about $300 (the sales girl accidentally left the receipt in the packaging) - which is something he hasn't done during our 10 years of marriage. He took me for granted all those years, you know? And I slowly turned to stone unbeknownst to us. I used to get jealous of couples who were displaying public affection... but not anymore because I don't want it from him. Ok, rant over. And you can be free to pursue your lesbian dreams Whaat?? I already have you on LS. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Aww. Thanks, Touche. No, I wouldn't recommend it. I was in such a fragile state that I was not even making sense on my original post. Also, a lot of posted flamed me... not pretty to read at all. Haha.. It's not so easy. HE is the one holding onto the marriage! He still loves me, and he's being very good lately. He is really trying to woo me all over again. But my heart must have turned into stone - because I just don't feel it. I guess I'm waiting for the spark to come back... and I am laying it all on him. If I should start listing the things he's bought me lately to show his love... you guys would tell me that I'm crazy to not fall for him! Like the roses for Valentines - they cost about $300 (the sales girl accidentally left the receipt in the packaging) - which is something he hasn't done during our 10 years of marriage. He took me for granted all those years, you know? And I slowly turned to stone unbeknownst to us. I used to get jealous of couples who were displaying public affection... but not anymore because I don't want it from him. Ok, rant over. Whaat?? I already have you on LS. The fact that he's buying you things does not impress me. That is not a way to show his love. If my husband gave me $300 roses but gave nothing of HIMSELF, the roses would be meaningless. Is he being more affectionate? You shouldn't lay it all on him to get the spark back. It won't work KnowHow. You have open your heart to him a little bit at least. And really talk about what you want from him. I'm sure it's not gifts. It might be too late but I hope not, since you mentioned you have kids. It doesn't sound like you really WANT this marriage though, but I hope I'm wrong. Also, you say that he's the one holding on to the marriage so you can't end it. That's not true. It may not be easy but you don't need his permission to end it. It sounds like a case of too little, too late for you. I hope I'm wrong there too though. It doesn't have to be. Yeah, let him work to get back into your heart, but soften your stance a little if you can find it in your heart to do that. Sounds like he still cares. Surely, you still have SOME feelings left for the father of your children. It CAN be good again. But it really will take some effort on YOUR part as well as his. And right now, it sounds like all the effort IS on his part. Why not try? You and your kids have so much to gain if you do. Hey, I know it won't be anything compared to what we have:love: but it can still be a close second! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Oooh, you got your picture back up! Isn't she beautiful, girls?? Touche, you are turning me into a goddamn lesbian!! KHLF, although Touchy may be attempting to recruit you to the other team I think you should know that once she does she will be awarded a kitchen appliance by the Lesbian Induction Club (known as L.I.C. (lick) ) Thought you should know that she has indeed been pressuring the senior members to upgrade the award to a bread machine..... sorry ..... I wanted to be honest with you tho:o And I am starting to feel quite insignificant in this thread.... you know my linoleum is quite exquisite And I am a full fledged flannel club member! Link to post Share on other sites
alwayslearn Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Ok, is LS always like this? Recruitment based and switching teams, etc. Are there truly a lot of switch hitters around these days? I, for one, like the team I am on and would knew switch sides. Thanks for the great read. You ladies are fabulous. Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 KHLF, although Touchy may be attempting to recruit you to the other team I think you should know that once she does she will be awarded a kitchen appliance by the Lesbian Induction Club (known as L.I.C. (lick) ) Thought you should know that she has indeed been pressuring the senior members to upgrade the award to a bread machine..... sorry ..... I wanted to be honest with you tho:o And I am starting to feel quite insignificant in this thread.... you know my linoleum is quite exquisite And I am a full fledged flannel club member! So that's why she's been seducing me? For a bread machine? That c***! Why, A4A. You weren't here when I went into a spasm. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 So that's why she's been seducing me? For a bread machine? That c***! Why, A4A. You weren't here when I went into a spasm. KnowHow! How can you say that to me! After everything we've been through together and you'll believe that little hussy, A over me! She just wants me all to herself. That's why she said that to you. She made the whole thing up! (It wasn't for a bread machine at ALL! It was for an ESPRESSO machine if you must know! Sheesh, I bet you can't blame me now, can you?) Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 The fact that he's buying you things does not impress me. That is not a way to show his love. If my husband gave me $300 roses but gave nothing of HIMSELF, the roses would be meaningless. Is he being more affectionate? Touche, my love:love: It is not that the price or the fact that they were rose. I wanted to illustrate the point that he hasn't done this before... and I should have been thrilled. But I wasn't! Is he being more affectionate? Yes and no. He makes attempts at communication and showing affection. It's hard to explain. Let's drop this. I am here, and that's what matters. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Sorry to horn in knowhow, but have you guys tried counseling? Even if you don't stay together, at least you guys can get to the bottom of your issues and find out what the problem is. (anyone have info on how to join lic?) Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Sorry to horn in knowhow, but have you guys tried counseling? Even if you don't stay together, at least you guys can get to the bottom of your issues and find out what the problem is. (anyone have info on how to join lic?) To join LIC you have to earn your carpet muchers badge, pay a nominal membership fee (covers registration in the LIC HQ and you get a snazzy certificate). You will get a flannel shirt with the LIC logo or baseball cap (your choice depending on how dedicated you are to being a true LIC member) Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 You will get a flannel shirt with the LIC logo or baseball cap (your choice depending on how dedicated you are to being a true LIC member) I'd go with the baseball cap. My body is too hott for a flannel shirt! Link to post Share on other sites
Tim'sAngel Posted May 11, 2006 Share Posted May 11, 2006 Sign me up Got my linolium all waxed and shiny! OH yea, and I want the baseball cap too, I'm really short and im afraid the flannel would be more of a dress on me than a shirt Link to post Share on other sites
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