michelangelo Posted May 30, 2006 Share Posted May 30, 2006 have you tried putting abrasive and sharp items in your hair? Wearing a steelwool shower cap to bed? Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywithafan Posted May 31, 2006 Share Posted May 31, 2006 have you tried putting abrasive and sharp items in your hair? Wearing a steelwool shower cap to bed? I tend to agree here...sometimes, you just have to take other kinds of measures....it works better than screaming, throwing tantrums, being acusatory......sharp objects...ROTFLMAO! Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 I tend to agree here...sometimes, you just have to take other kinds of measures....it works better than screaming, throwing tantrums, being acusatory......sharp objects...ROTFLMAO! My bf doesn't hit me in the head when I'm sleeping though. I have MAJOR tantrums when someone wakes me when I'm sleeping, I mean MAJOR as in getting pretty agressive. He does it to joke around. I don't think him hitting you with the penis is bad... lol My bf is immature and does that to me, he also likes to do things like make me smell his farts lol But I like to be crass though, I'm not one of those women who pretend to be all "lady like and proper" so I just fart back and make him smell mine or fart back on him so he can feel it. We're not a "high-class" couple where we have good manners and etiquette, we both just like to mess around. We even go to the bathroom in front of each other sometimes so it's not like him hitting me with his penis is that a big of a deal. The sex addiction with your husband is bad though, don't know what to tell you about that. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Hi, My husband is an SA and he does many of the same things. He plays with himself quite a bit even while just standing next to me. He does it to try to get my attention. He does it when he does not know he is. He rubs himself on me when I am at the computer, He makes innapropriate comments at the oddest moments,He is addicted to internet porn, he gets online ads for himself and trolls for photos and chat with women. He sends pics of himself. He gets caught apologizes, Swears it will never happen again and then bammo. He went so far as to plan a trip to a friend 8 hours away so he could meet up with an ex bed mate. Then made up a big story when caught with the plan right in his email. I finally got him to admit he has a problem. That was the first step. I bought a book about being Co Dependent to a SA. It has been enlightening. Join some of the SA boards and start reading. See if your hubby is like anything you read. SA's have many types of problems not all of them are addicted to the act of sex all the time. I think that is really a small part of it. Sometimes I feel all alone with this because not many people will talk about it. It is real. It is hard. and finding groups and counselors with any type of expertise is really hard. So I keep working on making me ok and leave his part up to him. Barb Link to post Share on other sites
purspeed Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Consider yourself lucky. Many women would die for a man like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 LOL...no he's not what you'd say gods gift to women. And yes my history is such that I do stay with men who abuse me in one sense or the other...I've analyzed myself to death being that I actually have a psych degree...lol. I have a couple of questions though that somewhat pertain to my original post...is it normal for a husband to forget he has condoms tucked into his car compartment...I mean is it possible or am I being naive? And second...is it wrong when we originally got together and I told him my feelings on porn and he said he wasn't into it and yet months later I find him paying money for it? I know many of you feel that porn is ok but if I told him initially shouldn't he have given me the option of leaving then instead of hiding it from me? I just am curious, maybe a man's perspective? My opinion on the porn is that some men are into it and to me it's not a problem. As far as him telling you he wasn't in the beginning that's one of those things that IMO men sometimes keep to themselves. THE CONDOM THING...is it really a matter of him "forgetting" that they were there? WHY are they there is the real question. Link to post Share on other sites
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