RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Okay now I am so sure I did the right thing. Ya all aren't going to believe this.....well...then again, you probably will!! I told you all that I met my MM on line right? What I didn't tell you all is that one night I was at a friends house and had one too many. When I got home I logged on the computer and HONESTLY fell onto this site that was exclusively for "married people" looking for affairs. Truth is I didn't even know that such a site existed and this is where it all began. Last Thursday if you all recall, I received an email with him confessing his so called "undenying love" for me in which I finally after 5 months of absolute NC responded and told him, NEVER to contact me again. So that was last Thursday. Today, I thought I would experiment and I signed onto that site with another name to actually write a profile and give my two cents to ALL the married people and how much damage an A can cause to all concered. Well, well, well..... I was not on there 10 minutes when a person under another user name made contact and gave me access to his pictures! Yes! You guessed it! It was my exMM!!! My initial thought was you son of a b**ch!!! My second thought was Ewwwwww....... "Looser" I can't believe it! Honestly! I just can't believe the GAME! I am so freakin grateful I let this go!! I am sharing this with you all because I care! If you have met your MM on line at that particular site, I suggest you do the same and get a sense of what you may not feel your dealing with! It will most definately give you the wake up call of your life!!! I honestly had no idea, my exMM was this sick!!! Yeah! He loved me alright!!! Fu*k** Ewwwwww......I am so disgusted with him I could PUKE!! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 I am GLAD that you found him on this site. Just the thing you need to completely seal him out of your life forever. What a cad. Feel sorry for him...he is sick. And pity his wife. She deserves better as did you. Isn't it funny how "all that glitters is not gold?" Hugs to you... WA Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 WA..... The Universe works in mysterious ways! I am so grateful to have been given another glimpse into his wacky world! THIS WAS HUGE! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Yep. He isn't worth one thought in your mind. And, he certainly isn't worth the salt in your tears. Shake him off and consider yourself LUCKY that you didn't end up with him. Can you IMAGINE the heartache? Don't let him infect ONE MOMENT of your life. He is crap. He is pond scum. And, he will pay for this someday. Life is funny that way. What goes around comes around. Remember that. Someday you are going to look back at this experience and just shake your head.... All my best... WA Link to post Share on other sites
StoneyHeart Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 This makes me want to cry! I would die/will die when I find out who he is with next so I am hoping to NEVER NEVER know anything further. I am so sorry you got this jolt added to an already bad situation. But you already recognize how this will help you not even want to hope for a future (which I think is the hardest part of letting go). Link to post Share on other sites
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Wow! That's an amazing story! It does go to show that our pain is wasted on scum! Thanks for sharing. That must have felt good to know! I wish I found some dirt on my MM, too.... Actually, no. I'd rather not. I'd like to believe that he's just a normal guy. He never intended to hurt me. I threw myself at him, really. Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 I agree StoneyHeart... Hope is what keeps a person hanging on. And, when the hope is gone...the true healing begins. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 Thanks Girls!!! *GROUP HUG* So revolting!!! I must admit, I am still in SHOCK!! HAPPY SHOCK NEVERTHELESS! I can't wait until Zara gets a hold of this! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 You thought her claws were sharp BEFORE... Oh boy....prepare yourselves! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 WA...... *laughing* Yes, Zara is a gem that's for sure!!! *now somebody go wake that girl up* Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Anybody live in Canada? Go wake up Zara! Geez...it's only 7:00 p.m. here in Arizona! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 WA.... *laughing* I DO!!! Link to post Share on other sites
scarletletter Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 I have to tell a story about what I know about a web site like that. A friend of mine was assuming that her husband had been on the site because she found the address written down. We were at my house, I logged on and made up a name with a whole scenerio of sick stuff and submitted it. The next morning I checked my email (I made a special email just for doing this) and it was absolutely FULL of replies from married men wanting a descreet relationship. Some with pictures, some not. One man even sent a picture of his penis...which by the way, was NOT impressive, but he must have thought so. I was totally amazed at just how many men there are out there that are willing to do this. Makes you wonder how you can trust anyone. I can feel your pain Reality Check. It must make you feel like getting some revenge. It would be funny to set him up with a "fake woman" and see how far it would go....serves him right! What a sleeze. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 I hate to say this but it works both ways, you would be amazed at how many married women are on these sites looking for that something extra. Some also are looking for some weird sh*t. Just my 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie61 Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 RC, I am almost speechless.... Wow! Forget what I said on another thread about never being able to stop loving the (ex)MM... THIS would certainly do the trick!!!! He's a p***k and he does not deserve you! NOR his W, I should think!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Count yourself lucky to have found this out about him. It is exactly the catalyst you need to wipe him from your life forever. And it certainly tells you a lot about him. Blyuck! When I was on the dating site, I saw a guy I knew who said he was divorced. When I talked to him, he said he was separated. Turns out he wasn't. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 ScarletLetter.... I did do that! I set up a profile and I am going to have the time of my life with this..... I am going to f**k with his head so much, he'll be begging to be put into an insane asylum! I'll definately keep you all posted. Jessie... You are so right!....its so GROSS! No wonder he caters to his wife so much! He has her thinking she has the perfect husband! Man! I hope the Ba**tard gets caught!! MovinOne... Definately a wake up call! P.S (missed you girl!) I just can't express enough to you girls how much my skin is crawling!! Its one thing for an A to happen, but another to actually make yourself available to multi-partners on a regular basis! Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Yeah, I'm still around. I just have to miss all the fun you guys have during the day while I'm working, but I keep checking in to enjoy the festivities! Link to post Share on other sites
Guitar Wizard Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Just goes to show that you really can find EVERYTHING on the internet these days. You know, that really makes me think, what about the creator of the websites? Like, the creator of loveshack probably was doing it to help people with relationship adivce, ect, but what about that kind of website? I mean, where do you even get that kind of idea? Do you just wake up one day and say "Hey, I got a great idea! A site for married people that are looking to have an affair!" Amazing. It's like myspace, but for evil people. Cwazyness. Anyway, Im glad you truely know what a loser this guy is. Good for you! :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 Guitar Wizard.... I honestly couldn't believe how many members were on that site! (hundreds of thousands!) It saddens me to think there are so many marriages in trouble and that people would rather go to sites such as this to compensate for all they lack in a marriage rather than seek counselling. SCARY thought! If it were me and I discovered my H on a site like that, I'd be filing the papers PDQ! Link to post Share on other sites
Guitar Wizard Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 Yeah, thats crazy! I mean, how can people honestly register and seek out other people to have an affair with!? What is the name of the site, homewrecker.com? imgoingtohellthefastway.net? pornisn'tenough.org? Ick. But in all honesty, im more scared then I am sickened. I mean... what is it going to be like 10 years from now? or 20? What will the world wide web be like then? *Shudder* Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 GW..... Indeed! Like our world doesn't need fixing now! Geez....I sure worry for my kids!! I gotta tell you, those site names you ever so creatively listed were halarious!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 Scarletletter.... Darn! I just thought of a fantastic idea! I set up a profile to mess with his head right! So I'm going to let him confess all his sorry A's to me.... and then I'm going to drop the bomb and tell him that I know who he is and that I know his W really well and that I am thinking of writing a letter to his W to expose his sorry a$$ infidelity!!! I'm also going to tell him that I have copies of his pics and messages for proof! Let him get all twisted over that! Understand, I wouldn't do that to his W, but he doesn't have to know that! Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted May 10, 2006 Share Posted May 10, 2006 RC this is horrifying! OMG,I'm sorry to hear you had to stumble upon that..but at same time I think it's better you know...damn girl. ps- can you pm me a link..I want to find my MM...or my H ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RealityCheck Posted May 10, 2006 Author Share Posted May 10, 2006 LoverNotAFighter..... I don't have access to pming yet! *pouts* However the site is called "Ashely Madison.com" No big secret! It is advertised everywhere! Someone told me that it was even advertised in the T.V. Guide! I do believe everyone should be aware of the site! Including the Wives! Link to post Share on other sites
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