TheSwordfish Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 *that's funny that you said that lol maybe, I like to show off pictures of my mom when she was younger (she modeled) me as a baby, my niece as a baby, even pics of my brother & sister growing up. so I guess for some reason it could work lol *Yah that's all in the game of dating, cause we all play games of cat & mouse. *The same goes with you! Yah I guess busses can't float lol what part of the country are you from may I ask *Usually I look at the whole picture. First I look at their face, body type, how they dress, and then if we hook eyes I'll go up to him or him to me and we'll start talking. Now if he starts out by saying how much money he has , then that's kind of a turnoff because that kind of says something about their personality. Like this one guy I was seeing told me at first meeting that he played pro baseball and unfortunately that grabbed me because I've always wanted to date a pro athlete. But after getting to know him he was actually the most cocky guy I've ever met. So it just depends. Also if a guy says an inappropriate sexual coment then that's also a turnoff, I don't mind the beautiful/gorgeous coments but for example when I was in vegas this guy came up to me, bent down and touched my leg! I was wearing a skirt but still this guy was way out of league so I yelled at him. So ya just never know I guess. I'm from Europe (Netherlands) so I'm not even from the same country. I like it when girls show pictures though (they tend to uses their phones nowadays) to show me their family and social lives. Do you look like your mother? (I guess if I were you I would reply that I looked liked my father ) And the money part, its awfull indeed. I'de never tell a girl about my financial situation to quikly (Well, I'm a homeless white gangstaraper ). I hate bragging about momey. But sometimes things I say are misinterpreted. Because I just graduated I'm still dating college girls (around age 21). I told one of them I was working hard lately, as a teacher, (told her some funny things that happened with the kids). She suddenly states: "Yes I need to get a job as well" Didn't understand where that came from..... Touching and sexual comments, ouch. I avoid them (girls come up with them though ). Didn't you slap him when he touched your leg? How do you handle guys that start inappropriately, with awfull sentences? Being a pro athlete might sound nice, but saying things like that right away is just a way of saying that it's the only thing he has. I'de rather ask questions, and listen, and just answers a girls questions. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 I'm from Europe (Netherlands) so I'm not even from the same country. I like it when girls show pictures though (they tend to uses their phones nowadays) to show me their family and social lives. Do you look like your mother? (I guess if I were you I would reply that I looked liked my father ) And the money part, its awfull indeed. I'de never tell a girl about my financial situation to quikly (Well, I'm a homeless white gangstaraper ). I hate bragging about momey. But sometimes things I say are misinterpreted. Because I just graduated I'm still dating college girls (around age 21). I told one of them I was working hard lately, as a teacher, (told her some funny things that happened with the kids). She suddenly states: "Yes I need to get a job as well" Didn't understand where that came from..... Touching and sexual comments, ouch. I avoid them (girls come up with them though ). Didn't you slap him when he touched your leg? How do you handle guys that start inappropriately, with awfull sentences? Being a pro athlete might sound nice, but saying things like that right away is just a way of saying that it's the only thing he has. I'de rather ask questions, and listen, and just answers a girls questions. Hey how's it goin? Yah I tend to use my phone for pictures instead of a normal camera. Well I look like my mom more but I have my dad's height. what do u mean when you said, if i were you i'd reply i look like my dad? lol does that mean you look like your dad? anyway, alot of people tell me i look German which I am from both sides of my parents, because of my cheekbones, and I'm also of English heritage. so you're a homeless white gangstarapper? lol that's pretty cute but yah alot of guys will try to reel you in with their rich pitch. i've met alot of guys that own their own company,dealership or whatever and usually i'll just sit there and listen, but then i think if i show them i like that aspect of their life than wouldn't that mean i'm a gold digger? lol so i try not to talk about money right from the start. unfortunately i get those kind of comments alot and to me it's embarrassing, like i could be anywhere and a guy will whistle or say hey baby from out of nowhere! it's like geez how hoosier can u get. one time i was walking with my mom in the mall and this guy said, nice legs. my mom and i just laughed because it's so ridiculous! but yah that guy in vegas i didn't end up slapping but i cursed at him and people looked over at him and then he quickly left! so all i do is just try to ignore the comments because it's so ludacris and obsurd. but i just laugh it off usually lol. pro athletes are usually, at least i think are arrogant. so when i met him i kinda knew what his game was going to be, but i guess i just liked the fantasy of it or something lol. we are still friends but he's not the type of guy i would probably marry. actually i was watching this movie with angelina jolie called, "life or something like it" and it was just like my situation, she was dating a probaseball player, life was great but one day she asked him what he liked about her and he replied, umm i like your ass! lol instead of saying something meaningful. and thats the same kind of relationship i was in, just in it for the looks. i like that bunny lol Link to post Share on other sites
TheSwordfish Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 Hey how's it goin? Yah I tend to use my phone for pictures instead of a normal camera. Well I look like my mom more but I have my dad's height. what do u mean when you said, if i were you i'd reply i look like my dad? lol does that mean you look like your dad? anyway, alot of people tell me i look German which I am from both sides of my parents, because of my cheekbones, and I'm also of English heritage. so you're a homeless white gangstarapper? lol that's pretty cute but yah alot of guys will try to reel you in with their rich pitch. i've met alot of guys that own their own company,dealership or whatever and usually i'll just sit there and listen, but then i think if i show them i like that aspect of their life than wouldn't that mean i'm a gold digger? lol so i try not to talk about money right from the start. unfortunately i get those kind of comments alot and to me it's embarrassing, like i could be anywhere and a guy will whistle or say hey baby from out of nowhere! it's like geez how hoosier can u get. one time i was walking with my mom in the mall and this guy said, nice legs. my mom and i just laughed because it's so ridiculous! but yah that guy in vegas i didn't end up slapping but i cursed at him and people looked over at him and then he quickly left! so all i do is just try to ignore the comments because it's so ludacris and obsurd. but i just laugh it off usually lol. pro athletes are usually, at least i think are arrogant. so when i met him i kinda knew what his game was going to be, but i guess i just liked the fantasy of it or something lol. we are still friends but he's not the type of guy i would probably marry. actually i was watching this movie with angelina jolie called, "life or something like it" and it was just like my situation, she was dating a probaseball player, life was great but one day she asked him what he liked about her and he replied, umm i like your ass! lol instead of saying something meaningful. and thats the same kind of relationship i was in, just in it for the looks. i like that bunny lol Hey there So you are an English, German American? (I look like my grandad on my mothers side, nothing like my dad, only have his length). (I asked a girl if she looked like her mom once, she said: “I look like my dad” But her dad had a beard ). What kind of pictures do you take with your phone? (I'm always forced to be a part of extremely toothpaste commercial like cell phone pictures). Being interested in someone’s career wouldn't make you a gold digger. But talking about money is rather boring if you ask me. Ever had guys that kept on going on about their accomplishments without asking you anything? How do you react when that happens? Those comments must be annoying, even though they’re meant as a compliment. Luckily we don't have that problem as much as men. Even though, last week I had these sixteen year old girls calling me arrogant, because I didn't respond to them screaming stuff about me being cute (and about my ass) while I was walking down the street. Just saying, nice legs, is so, as if its about meat. Do you have a certain facial expression (looking annoyed) to tell people to shut up? Was he saying nice legs, to you, your mother, or to both of you? If it happens a lot you will probably get really bored of it? (I recall an older woman hating construction workers for not whistling lmao). All these guying trying to get you to notice them by yelling weird things. Does the yelling tell you something about genes? (Not working brains maybe) The I like your ass part, was that a comedy movie? Relationships just about looks hardly work. Sometimes I’m infatuated and then you just don’t have a clue why you like a girl. Maybe it just feels nice dating a pro athlete because these guys are determined and well trained (until their career suddenly stops). (I used to be a great swimmer at the age of ten by the way, until I lost my swimming shorts in the middle of a chest crawl match). Are you atracted to guys that look like pro atletes? Makes me wonder, does a trained body tell something about genes or determination? (I used to be the typical college boy, not overly trained, was on the swimming team for a year, but not overly muscled, nowadays I train harder then ever but no difference in my chances with women, they seem to look at other things). I think the genes part is just the gut instinct. I have had bad experience with that lately. Me and a girl being really attracted to each other, probably because of us looking alike, and the immune system thing but both of us messing it up completely by acting strange/stupid. Some say the gut instinct is wrong in many cases and that infatuation is the last thing we should look for. What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Author vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 14, 2006 Author Share Posted May 14, 2006 Hey Yep I'm English heritage but mostly German (ancestors) that's funny what you said about that girl about the beard part, lol well with my phone I usually take pics of my friends, and places I visit, it's a pretty good phone so I don't need a digital camera or anything. I like career driven guys as in they are stable but like I said I definitely don't come across as the gold digger type, because I plan to make alot of money myself one day and I don't want to depend on anyone else financially. I do have some guys just ramble on about what they do, because I think they think that's what I want to hear, but yah it can get boring! I like the attention and receiving compliments and everything but alot of time I just try to ignore it and brush it off, UNLESS the guy is extremely hot or something, lol. Like lastnight I went out with my friends at a club and this guy came up to me, and he straight up looked like he came out of a calvin klein ad! that's cute what you said about the young girls flirting with you About the nice legs part, it was directed towards me because I was wearing a skirt & my mom was right there so she tried to ignore it but we were like, oh geez lol. it's funny that you mention that about the facial expressions. and actually my friend's not really talking to me because whenever we go out she's always insecure. the thing is, if I a guy comes up to me and I can tell he's not my type then I'll give him an annoying wink and I'll point at the same time, lol like a gesture to leave me alone, lol I know I'm so rude, lol, but then after I blow him off he'll start talking to my friend, like she's second best and she realizes it and it makes her pissed, but I can't help it!! So at any rate we haven't really been hanging out like we used to so I don't know what her problem is. The movie is a comedy I actually have it on DVD, but it's a really good movie and I like Angelina Jolie movies. I think I liked the pro athlete because I guess to me it was like a thrill or I felt special or something, and he was nicely built and handsome but looks only get you so far if you lack personality. That's awesome that you used to be a swimmer that must have been alot of fun! The looking alike part about dating I think is true too, I actually had similar traits to the pro guy and I think that's why we were attracted to each other in a way. I also think what you said about infatuation is true because most of the time it seems like we only want to see what we want to see meaning we don't always see the whole picture because we could be so infatuated with someone but miss the real picture, if that makes sense lol Link to post Share on other sites
Author vi_pn_babe25 Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 This just proves that genes can play a role in dating! http://channels.netscape.com/love/package.jsp?floc=hp-tos-popc-h-01&name=fte/cheatingwife/cheatingwife Link to post Share on other sites
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