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Alright, first off, I am a guy in HS, so I don't go clubbing anf to a whole lot of parties.

 

I don't have a lot of real friends, I have people that I talk to every day, but I don't have anyone that I talk to outside of school or do anything with.

 

I am trying extremely hard to make some good friends and do more, but I don't have a lot of experience. I don't play any sports for school, I play intermurrel, but not for school.

 

So, I met this girl maybe 8 weeks ago and I started talking to her everyday in class. She has a group of friends and is pretty social. At first it was a bit of a crush, but now I just don't know how much I like her.

 

I talk to her a bit outside of school on but only through IMs, though I do haver her number. But the problem is, is that it doesn't seem like she ever IMs me unless she has a question with HW or something, and she doesn't really try and talk to me at school now either since I don't sit by her anymore.

 

I have still tried to be friends with her and know her better, but I don't know where I stand with her.

 

I want to ask her why she doesn't talk to me anymore, but there are so many bad ways she could take it.

 

So, do I keep trying to talk to her?

 

I am thinking of asking her what she is doing this weekend, but it is hard cause she does things every week with her group.

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