Ben Posted October 14, 2001 Share Posted October 14, 2001 I'm a loser. Why i like to stick around in bars? The more i drink there, the more unhappy i'm. the more easy girl i pick up there, the more emptiness i found with my heart. Why i still like to "po bars" for drink and one night stand? because i can't forget her. very interesting, most of my fello co-workers or other people in brokerage houses are having the same life as me. get hurted in love and get drink and feck in bars. poor business Link to post Share on other sites
darcy071 Posted October 14, 2001 Share Posted October 14, 2001 The pain of loving and losing someone can drive a person to do a lot of things. I understand your pain but the only one you are hurting is yourself. Try staying away from booze and women and you will in time be able to think clearly and find some happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted October 15, 2001 Share Posted October 15, 2001 hi ben, as long as you THINK you are a loser, you will behave like one. it really is poor business. very unfulfilling. you are obviously not happy with your life at the moment, and the only person who can make you happy is YOURSELF. girl's you meet in bars will never make you happy because your actions - taking them home for a one-night stand - make you feel empty. you have to stop this behaviour if you want to even begin to find happiness and live a fulfilling life. you CAN go places and meet girls WITHOUT taking them home. you say you are not over your ex? how long has it been since you broke up with her? it seems you are trying to fill a void by picking up girls in bars. there are more constructive ways to get over an ex....talk to friends, family or a counsellor about how you feel....write your feelings in a journal.....make plans to travel somewhere.....DON'T PICK GIRLS UP. you need to face your feelings and understand that every single one of us out there has had their heart broken at one time or another. i know it is very painful and some people take a long time to get over. but you need to face these feelings on your own. don't avoid how you feel by sleeping with other women because it only creates another problem for you. by the way....99% of girls i know, don't like to see guys very drunk in bars. they're the ones to avoid, so it's possible you're not even picking up the nicest chick in the joint. do you follow what i'm saying? a loser will attract a loser, so you're in a no-win situation if you continue to think and behave like this. when you get yourself together, you will attract a decent girl and start getting over your ex...trust me. best wishes Link to post Share on other sites
Cess Posted October 15, 2001 Share Posted October 15, 2001 First of all,what the hell kind of languge are you talking? Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Life is too short just drink and pick up easy lays. Challenge yourself. Don't you have dreams? Pursue them. Maybe take an English course. You are only making yourself a loser. Face your problems in a positive way. Drinking only makes things worse. Do things you enjoy. Do things that make you happy. You can love more than once. I'm a loser. Why i like to stick around in bars? The more i drink there, the more unhappy i'm. the more easy girl i pick up there, the more emptiness i found with my heart. Why i still like to "po bars" for drink and one night stand? because i can't forget her. very interesting, most of my fello co-workers or other people in brokerage houses are having the same life as me. get hurted in love and get drink and feck in bars. poor business Link to post Share on other sites
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