basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 I was talking to my dad on the phone last night and I thought it was odd he asked me if my brother has had anymore incidences. I thought it was weird he used words like that and I assumed he ment if he was staying out of trouble. I reminded dad that he knows he has to little boys to take care of and think about. He can't go out and do all the stupid shyt he did before. He is more careful with his life... Dad said Ok. Then I chat with my mom online later and she tells me that my dad called her the other night and confided in her that my brother told him he has 'herpes'... That his Xgf, the mother of his boys who abandoned them, gave them to him... WTF... I am so irrate right now. My dad said he claims she had her clothes with his and that is how he was infected. I told my mother that I think that is a crock of "mirrda"!!! I think he had a weak moment and f***ed her after knowing she f***s anything that will have her.... He broke his relationship off with her because he busted her sleeping with his best friend and found out (she admitted) to sleeping with men 30+ years her elder. One being a pediphile who also slept with her mother too and she knew it.. Now that is just plain NASTY.. This girl I want to jump in her face. Damn it.. I have treated with with civiliity for years when she was involved with my brother. The rest of the family would degrade her and treat as such.. I always talked to her and advised her with logic and sympathy. She would open up to me and cry... She never learned... She is such a idiot.. She doesn't have a brain in her head I swear.. I want to smack her across the face.. OMG... My brother that fool.. Damn idiot. He knows that she is a skank and yet he gets involved with her again when we all have told him over and over that he is going to catch something from her if he kept messing around with her and didn't get rid of her. Finally, she told him that she wants to go out and party. She doesn't want to be a mother and she wants to be single. So she moved out and left their two boys with him. Ages 1 and 5. She pops in and out of their lives as she pleases--usually when she is lonely and doesn't have a man in her twat.... My brother isn't the most handsome man. He is rather homely, rugged, looks like a short woodsman type.. Thinning hair, unmanagable hair, little beady eyes, scars on his face from his reckless life of motorcycles, car accidents, fights, dumb choices.. He is a braggert and thinks he knows-it-all. Even though I don't think he is very handsome I'm sure there are decent women out there who would adore him. He is loving and affectionate and a hard worker. He is a good provider but needs to learn to budget his money better. Why would he f*** that biaytch knowing she has slept with almost every man in the country... What a idiot... Now he has herpes.... He has it for life... My mom and I are concerned he will pass it onto his boys since they are in his care. He keeps his house picked up and somewhat organized but like any bachelor he isn't clean. He doesn't sanitize and she is worse. She is a total slob.. My heart is just breaking because of those two little boys... I'm upset and my brain is running rampant.. I didn't know where to put this thread.. I needed to rant/vent, its a family ordeal, yet its also a health related issue.. I have a gf with herpes so I do understand you can live with it and have a normal life but your life changes because of it.. I'm just pissed....mad at him for being a idiot, mad at her for knowingly giving it to my brother, concerned for my nephews... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 I'm sorry that you're upset. THat's a tough situation. Have you talked about this information with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 I'm sorry that you're upset. THat's a tough situation. Have you talked about this information with him? Not yet. He doesn't even know that mom and I know. My parents are divorced.. My dad calls my mom once inawhile to chit-chat and he confided in her this info. My brother doesn't know we know. I'm sure he will tell me one day but for now all I can do is fume about it... He is only 35 yrs old... Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 Well there are some good drugs out there to manage herpes, so it's not as bad now as it used to be. I would make sure to ask or snoop around and see if he's taking any, ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 Well there are some good drugs out there to manage herpes, so it's not as bad now as it used to be. and even if left untreated the symptoms get less & less severe as time passes (for most people) Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 Well there are some good drugs out there to manage herpes, so it's not as bad now as it used to be. I would make sure to ask or snoop around and see if he's taking any, ya know? I'm fully aware of this but until he confides in me I have to respect that he only told my dad.. Mom told me last night she hopes he's went to the doctor because if he hasn't he will be sorry... Now I can understand why my dad sounded to strange on the phone last night.. He was trying to find out if I knew.. Man I'm upset... f***... I want to slap him.. Fool, idiot... He knew better... OMG.. He knew better... Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 and even if left untreated the symptoms get less & less severe as time passes (for most people) He told dad that his groin and upper thighs were tingly, a little itchy, rashy reddish and kinda green looking. He needs to get to the damn doctor if he hasn't yet. A lot depends on your immune system and he has been sick lately. He may even have contracted AIDS from that bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 He told dad that his groin and upper thighs were tingly, a little itchy, rashy reddish and kinda green looking. it will go away by itself after a few weeks. the medications just make it go away faster. either way, yes, he should see a doctor to make sure it is herpes Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 it will go away by itself after a few weeks. the medications just make it go away faster. either way, yes, he should see a doctor to make sure it is herpes It never goes away. It goes dormat. Once you have the virus you always have it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 It never goes away. It goes dormat. Once you have the virus you always have it. i know that honey....i meant that particular outbreak will go away eventually. what? you think u smarter than me? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 The rash will probably go away, but if it is indeed herpes, the virus does stick. Pada I sympathize with you being upset, but perhaps there is a reason your brother did not tell you this information,-he didn't want you to know. Your brother is a grown man and if he wants to go out and get herpes ,well thats his business .If he chooses to get it on with the mother of his children who is sleeping around ( and he knows it) thats his business too. Perhaps he didn't want to deal with you freaking out over it and wanting to go off and assult the mother of his children-like thats going to make his life any easier. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted May 12, 2006 Share Posted May 12, 2006 Thinning hair, unmanagable hair, little beady eyes, scars on his face from his reckless life for some inexplicable reason, an image of a possum has popped into my head, pada! herpes ... damn. IF he is faithful about getting treatment and keeping up with it, he shouldn't have problems with outbreaks, but as you point out, there's a true fear of contaminating his boys. He's going to have to be really, really careful about washing his hands after peeing, about kissing boo-boos that are open cuts, etc. Before you worry yourself to death, check an online health site to see how exactly the virus can be transmitted in a non-sexual manner. Then get back with your dad and inform him so he can inform your brother. It's the best you can do until your brother informs you that he's got the disease. Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 12, 2006 Author Share Posted May 12, 2006 what? you think u smarter than me? 'alpha said with a italian mafia tone of voice...' :lmao: (If LS had a kissy smilie I would have used it.. ) perhaps there is a reason your brother did not tell you this information,-he didn't want you to know. Your brother is a grown man and if he wants to go out and get herpes ,well thats his business .If he chooses to get it on with the mother of his children who is sleeping around ( and he knows it) thats his business too. Perhaps he didn't want to deal with you freaking out over it and wanting to go off and assult the mother of his children-like thats going to make his life any easier. He flips out on her anyway. She flips out on him. He has woken to her sitting on top of him trying to strangle him.. As for me flipping out. He just realized his outbreak and he has only spoken to dad because he lives closer (in the nursing home). My brother and I are close but we clash bigtime so we contact each other about once a month. He called me about 2 weeks ago with a drunken know-it-all attitude and I couldn't stand it.. He rarely talks to mom. He will get around to talking to us. He works full-time/overtime and takes care of his boys alone so he is usually tired and busy with surviving. The times when he calls is when he gets a break which is rare.. I don't beleive he hasn't told me because he doesn't want me flipping out. He and I are close. He shares a lot with me. As much as we are different we are very close and protective of each other. Thinning hair, unmanagable hair, little beady eyes, scars on his face from his reckless life for some inexplicable reason, an image of a possum has popped into my head, pada! I had a Xbf nickname him troll.. ahahah He does kinda look like a possum only his nose isn't like a possum and he doesnt have a long face.. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Love or Hate Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 I was talking to my dad on the phone last night and I thought it was odd he asked me if my brother has had anymore incidences. I thought it was weird he used words like that and I assumed he ment if he was staying out of trouble. I reminded dad that he knows he has to little boys to take care of and think about. He can't go out and do all the stupid shyt he did before. He is more careful with his life... Dad said Ok. Then I chat with my mom online later and she tells me that my dad called her the other night and confided in her that my brother told him he has 'herpes'... That his Xgf, the mother of his boys who abandoned them, gave them to him... WTF... I am so irrate right now. My dad said he claims she had her clothes with his and that is how he was infected. I told my mother that I think that is a crock of "mirrda"!!! I think he had a weak moment and f***ed her after knowing she f***s anything that will have her.... He broke his relationship off with her because he busted her sleeping with his best friend and found out (she admitted) to sleeping with men 30+ years her elder. One being a pediphile who also slept with her mother too and she knew it.. Now that is just plain NASTY.. This girl I want to jump in her face. Damn it.. I have treated with with civiliity for years when she was involved with my brother. The rest of the family would degrade her and treat as such.. I always talked to her and advised her with logic and sympathy. She would open up to me and cry... She never learned... She is such a idiot.. She doesn't have a brain in her head I swear.. I want to smack her across the face.. OMG... My brother that fool.. Damn idiot. He knows that she is a skank and yet he gets involved with her again when we all have told him over and over that he is going to catch something from her if he kept messing around with her and didn't get rid of her. Finally, she told him that she wants to go out and party. She doesn't want to be a mother and she wants to be single. So she moved out and left their two boys with him. Ages 1 and 5. She pops in and out of their lives as she pleases--usually when she is lonely and doesn't have a man in her twat.... My brother isn't the most handsome man. He is rather homely, rugged, looks like a short woodsman type.. Thinning hair, unmanagable hair, little beady eyes, scars on his face from his reckless life of motorcycles, car accidents, fights, dumb choices.. He is a braggert and thinks he knows-it-all. Even though I don't think he is very handsome I'm sure there are decent women out there who would adore him. He is loving and affectionate and a hard worker. He is a good provider but needs to learn to budget his money better. Why would he f*** that biaytch knowing she has slept with almost every man in the country... What a idiot... Now he has herpes.... He has it for life... My mom and I are concerned he will pass it onto his boys since they are in his care. He keeps his house picked up and somewhat organized but like any bachelor he isn't clean. He doesn't sanitize and she is worse. She is a total slob.. My heart is just breaking because of those two little boys... I'm upset and my brain is running rampant.. I didn't know where to put this thread.. I needed to rant/vent, its a family ordeal, yet its also a health related issue.. I have a gf with herpes so I do understand you can live with it and have a normal life but your life changes because of it.. I'm just pissed....mad at him for being a idiot, mad at her for knowingly giving it to my brother, concerned for my nephews... My Parents r sooo much worse!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author basscatcher Posted May 13, 2006 Author Share Posted May 13, 2006 My Parents r sooo much worse!!!!!!! HUH? :confused: Link to post Share on other sites
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