somebodysomeone Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 hi everyonen i need some advice, i been interested in this girl for a while now and ive spoken to her a couple of times and we have a lot in common. a couple of nights ago we were out at a social event for our uni and we sat together and talked together for a while. shes not the type of girl who gets picked up when she goes out(she barely goes out anyway) and i think shes really shy as i rarely see her around campus (we both live on campus). anyway i eventually asked her for her phone number and it was like i farted or something, she took off saying she had to go to the bathroom but when she returned she started yahooing around with a guy we both know(but is not available) and not even looking in my direction(after telling me she doesnt dance socially anymore). we were getting along great before that. i left because i was drunk and had to get up early but when i got home i wrote her a note telling her that i like her and would like to get to know her better and that i wasnt trying to pick her up. in the morning i regretted writting it but got a txt off her(i gave her my number in the letter) saying she was interested in being friends only. i talked to a couple of people and some thought we were cute together and some thought i was trying to pick her up(theres a point when i drink were i may seem like im trying to pick up but im just drunk). i really like her but i asked around and everyone that knows her cant remember her ever having a boyfriend or even getting picked up. i think she is very shy and if i was to become more then friends id have to take it very slowly and first build up a friendship. anyone else have any advice or thoughts? thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 hi everyonen i need some advice, i been interested in this girl for a while now and ive spoken to her a couple of times and we have a lot in common. a couple of nights ago we were out at a social event for our uni and we sat together and talked together for a while. shes not the type of girl who gets picked up when she goes out(she barely goes out anyway) and i think shes really shy as i rarely see her around campus (we both live on campus). anyway i eventually asked her for her phone number and it was like i farted or something, she took off saying she had to go to the bathroom but when she returned she started yahooing around with a guy we both know(but is not available) and not even looking in my direction(after telling me she doesnt dance socially anymore). we were getting along great before that. i left because i was drunk and had to get up early but when i got home i wrote her a note telling her that i like her and would like to get to know her better and that i wasnt trying to pick her up. in the morning i regretted writting it but got a txt off her(i gave her my number in the letter) saying she was interested in being friends only. i talked to a couple of people and some thought we were cute together and some thought i was trying to pick her up(theres a point when i drink were i may seem like im trying to pick up but im just drunk). i really like her but i asked around and everyone that knows her cant remember her ever having a boyfriend or even getting picked up. i think she is very shy and if i was to become more then friends id have to take it very slowly and first build up a friendship. anyone else have any advice or thoughts? thanks. Your drunkeness does not impress her and her IMING an acquaintance in front of you instead of chatting away is a bad sign. Are you sure you both have in common? Commonalities are one where two people have similar family upbringing, similar interests, similar views of life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somebodysomeone Posted May 13, 2006 Author Share Posted May 13, 2006 Your drunkeness does not impress her and her IMING an acquaintance in front of you instead of chatting away is a bad sign. Are you sure you both have in common? Commonalities are one where two people have similar family upbringing, similar interests, similar views of life. whats IMING? we do have some things in common, we both like horror movies, watch the same shows(theres only a couple we watch anyway), like the same type of music, have the same favourite band, are both normally shy but are known to do outragous things to what i can only assume to be known as different. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 She isn't shy. She's just not interested in you. You did the right thing by asking her for her phone number. She didn't give it to you. That, plus the "friends only" line, says it all. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 whats IMING? we do have some things in common, we both like horror movies, watch the same shows(theres only a couple we watch anyway), like the same type of music, have the same favourite band, are both normally shy but are known to do outragous things to what i can only assume to be known as different. The only true way to know how she thinks of you is ultimately her agreeing to a one on one hangout/date and if she does not reject your touches/kisses. If you don't do any of the above, all you can do is assume. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 i think she is very shy and if i was to become more then friends id have to take it very slowly and first build up a friendship. anyone else have any advice or thoughts? thanks. GFTO is right. She's not interested in you. Even if she was shy she wouldn't have given you the friend's line. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 GFTO is right. She's not interested in you. Even if she was shy she wouldn't have given you the friend's line. Ditto this. I consider myself to be very shy around guys but I still have my standards ~ not to imply that there's anything wrong with you, but you know what I mean. Be her friend if you can handle it. If not, it's time to focus your energy elsewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
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