RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 MO.... I'm freakin trying here....which question? *laughing* He indulged the Internet thingy to me. No damn way am I telling him that! I like playing Sherlock! I may have been vulnerable, but not STUPID!! Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Speaking of Snakes..... WA..... I do believe I thought of telling him he would have to stand on a ladder to kiss a snakes a$$. *Gulp*Cheers* Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 MO.... I'm freakin trying here....which question? *laughing* He indulged the Internet thingy to me. No damn way am I telling him that! I like playing Sherlock! I may have been vulnerable, but not STUPID!! I just thought that was quite a coincidence for him to show up and tell you that now. But also, that it took guts to admit that!! Sheesh! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 So, what are your true thoughts about your situation now RC? Has he made any plans to be with you full time now? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 MO... That was my thought! Like I said, I was very vulnerable. I really don't know where this is going. That is the truth! I have been having such a good time, I really don't want to go through that s*** again. Thinking about what Zara said about her exMM leaving and going back! Man! That is unbelievable!!! I really do think us girls should meet somewhere! That would be such a great time! You all are soooooooooo terrific! Hell, I want an A with you all! *laughing* *gulp* Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Hey, why don't we just meet in the middle!! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I was thinking the same thing! Where would that be? Chicago? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 MO Zara WA.... I'm in!! Let book something!! Hey *gulp* Do you think people get pissed with us drinking and partying on their thread? *laughing* Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Let's do it! Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WA..... *on the floor* WFT....Chicago!! That's at the end of the earth for me and Zara!! We might as well shave our heads and go to Tibet!!! *laughing* *here have a shooter* Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I was thinking Chicago too!! We could always move the party to "What are you doing to go on". But now its 11:00 by me and its my beddy bye time. So, party on Garth!! Goodnight girls! kiss kiss!! Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 *Yawn* Me too! It was fun as usual! Good night....wet dreams...oops! I mean sweet dreams! Trip discussion ....to be continued Muahhhhh Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WA..... *on the floor* WFT....Chicago!! That's at the end of the earth for me and Zara!! We might as well shave our heads and go to Tibet!!! *laughing* *here have a shooter* Well, we could include Ozgirl and REALLY go far. How far is Australia from you guys? Silly Canadians and Texans..... Link to post Share on other sites
eyeswideshut Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Hey, I missed out on all the fun!! I just was working on my NC email. RC... PLEASE I need to plagiarize your stuff. How did you do NC??? He sounds just like mine would sound in about 5 months. hahaha I bought him two chocolate bars from a Chocolatier here in Montreal. One has Cayenne in it, the other one, salt. I ate both of them. Because of my resolution to not see him. (or lack of sex, who knows) RC, you gotta gotta gotta fill us in. What did he tell you in bed??!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!! I just love those horizontal conversations. harrrrrrrrharrrrrrrrrrr. Where can we meet? I wanna be there too! Oz girl, I'll be in NZ next February. maybe we should all meet in NY city!!! We can all share a room. It would be dirt cheap. Especially if we are 8 girls in a room. hahahhaha. I'll be in France this summer. Jessie?? wanna come to Paris? I'll be spending most of my time in Marseille. I'll be in Mexico city in October. Is that close to anyone? We really HAVE TO MEET that would be hilarious, reeeeeeeediculous. :laugh: :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Jessie61 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I'll be in France this summer. Jessie?? wanna come to Paris? I'll be spending most of my time in Marseille. RC, First of all, I am gutted that I missed all the excitement! I am in the wrong bloody time zone... DOH!!!! (Morning now where I am waking up...) My eyes nearly popped out of my head when I read about your adventures.... Feel that I have been exactly there a couple of times myself... 5 months of NC and there he is... I know what you mean about MM losing weight; my MM lost almost 10 kilos (approx 20 lbs) in about 6 weeks of NC once, his eyes were baggy and his skin was ashen when HE showed up on MY doorstep... I guess he got the sympathy vote from me too???? Sorry, I am still in shock! I am not even sure WHAT to say to you!!! So I'll ask you this instead: What do YOU want to do now? Would YOU want him, if he left the W? What has he said about leaving, except "that was then and this is now"...? I assume you are meeting again...? What, if anything, have you decided to do???? My initial advice (although I have to admit that I am probably as confused as you are right now... ) is that you should continue to stand firm; you are NOT to become the OW again... (Assuming you DON'T want that, of course!!!) This might be your chance to move things forward now that he has had a chance to really miss you... (Strike when they are weak!!! ) Then I guess it is a matter of deciding HOW exactly the thing is to move forward...? IF that is what you want... Sorry, I am still definitively in shock... This is totally incoherent... I should probably come back this evening??? I need some STRONG coffee now... RC, please stay with us!!! EWS, when are you in France? (I mean, that is where I am!!! Yes, the wrong bloody time zone to catch all the action live....!!!) I certainly have to prepare myself for the distinct possibility that I will be there this summer and forever and ever..... Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 My sister lives in France. Maybe I shall pay her a visit.... Link to post Share on other sites
eyeswideshut Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 oh yes!!!! We should meet in France! WA, you gotta come!!!! I'll be there from July 11th until July 31. I'm staying in Marseille for two weeks with my brother in law. But other than that, I will be in Paris and London for the remainder... OMG we should hold an annual OW workshop with the 12 steps to letting go in Paris every year. hahahaa Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 How the heck do you eat a daddy long leg by mistake? Its not like a fly that flew in your mouth!! Hey Zara, my son just told me that the average human eats 8 spiders a year in their sleep!! You might want to sleep with a muzzle!! lol! porceline god, where are you?!?? That was my thought! Like I said, I was very vulnerable. I really don't know where this is going. That is the truth! I have been having such a good time, I really don't want to go through that s*** again. Thinking about what Zara said about her exMM leaving and going back! Man! That is unbelievable!!! Oh yeah, we even lived together, he looked me in the eyes and told me each day how much he loved me, what an amazing woman he thought I was, that he's a lucky man, etc. all the while he was workin' it back at his then estranged wife's house. At least he had been honest with her about me, but he was never honest to me about her. I never thought that one human being can be so cruel to another. He has no excuses for it. So now when he says that he genuinely wants to be nice to me, how do I believe that? How does that not remind me of all the 'genuine' things he's said to me in the past. Yeah, I have to remind myself of all these lies. I honestly don't know why he cares to have me around. Maybe, that way, I don't have to really be away. Well, we could include Ozgirl and REALLY go far. How far is Australia from you guys? Silly Canadians and Texans..... Last time I checked, I believe there's one or two stop overs en route to Australia and total travel time is almost 30 hours. hmmmm... a bunch of my friends and I are planning a trip to Aruba later this year and I have a buddy I can visit in Seattle or Vancouver... sans H. He and I go everywhere together normally where travel is concerned because he has holidays and I don't. But he owes me one 'by myself trip' Chicago is a bit far for me. I know some of you are adverse to the cold, but I love to plough myself some frosty hills in the winter so maybe we can head over to Montana, Utah, or Vermont in the winter 4 a weekend? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Jessie... I really don't know where I'm going with this! I really have labled the emotions and put them on the shelf. I honestly, don't want to read those books again! I guess the "fear" is keeping me at bay and most likely will continue. Someone told me a long time ago, if you ever hurt so badly in any type of emotion, you will never feel it again! Somehow I believe that, because I pretty much beat the emotion to death! With him anyway! As far as the romp!!! You know the usual stuff..... In between all the moans, heavy petting, and the point of entry *laughing*......Oh your so beautiful, so sexy, I can be like this forever! We fit so well together..... EWS..... Now that whole idea of the chocolate bars is a SCREAM!!! You ladies crack me up and tickle my insides!!! What would I have done without you all!!! Back to the trip..... I think it would be really great if we met somewhere in Canada!! Zara and I could get ripped off with our Canadian dollar anywhere else, while the U.S. dollar gets its best bang for its buck!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Yeah, but isn't it COLD there? BRRRRRRR..... Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WA..... *laughing* Your alive today!!! Yippee!! Canada has beautiful hot summers! I certainly wouldn't be wanting to go to Alaska!!! *laughing* Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I'm cool with coming to Canada...no pun intended. But Zara wants to do the winter thing.....snow and ice....Yikes! P.S. The only ice we have here in Arizona is in our freezers! Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I'm cool with coming to Canada...no pun intended. But Zara wants to do the winter thing.....snow and ice....Yikes! P.S. The only ice we have here in Arizona is in our freezers! LOL! I'm lookin' outside, RC, and I don't see anything warm. Frankly speaking, I'm waiting for a 'delayed' April snowstorm to hit us. #$%&!!! As for chocolate, EWS, share, will ya? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WA.... Absolutely no pun taken!!! Are you kidding me??? Zara really wants snow and ice??? If Zara wants ice and snow....we'll throw her in the freezer!!*laughing* I want HEAT! Outdoor patios and drinks!! Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WA.... Absolutely no pun taken!!! Are you kidding me??? Zara really wants snow and ice??? If Zara wants ice and snow....we'll throw her in the freezer!!*laughing* I want HEAT! Outdoor patios and drinks!! I guess you had enough of winter by now, eh RC? We had a pretty mild one over here. The only things I like about winter are the sports. But a nice hot chocolate in front of a toasty wood burnin' fire is mighty nice too. Um.... I have to admit something guys. There have been many times where I leave my air conditioning off in my car so that I can enjoy the heat that much more. I'm cold even on the hottest days. Link to post Share on other sites
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