KNE10 Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 Revenge will not make you feel better. You are not thinking straight right now and if you try to take revenge you will later regret it. The feeling of revenge will not easily go away but you have to let it go for now. Revenge might have more negative effect on you than on her. The best revenge might be for her to see you with someone else and being happy. But you should do this for other reasons and not to spite her. If you have a small chance of getting her back, you will eliminate it by taking revenge. If you don't care if she comes back, then move on, don't take revenge. If you do care you have nothing to lose by not acting bitterly. Link to post Share on other sites
waitingforlove Posted July 5, 2006 Share Posted July 5, 2006 timidity99, Clearly you don't "love" her. If you want her back just so you can get a chance to hurt her again "in revenge," you would be doing her a favor not to get back with her at all. I wish your ex knew your heart ..... good luck to her! She's too mature for you ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author timidity99 Posted July 6, 2006 Author Share Posted July 6, 2006 Revenge will not make you feel better. You are not thinking straight right now and if you try to take revenge you will later regret it. The feeling of revenge will not easily go away but you have to let it go for now. Revenge might have more negative effect on you than on her. The best revenge might be for her to see you with someone else and being happy. But you should do this for other reasons and not to spite her. If you have a small chance of getting her back, you will eliminate it by taking revenge. If you don't care if she comes back, then move on, don't take revenge. If you do care you have nothing to lose by not acting bitterly. I don't want her back but I want her to want me back just so I can boost my ego. She's not the first woman I've grown to hate. For some reason I never grow to hate women until they offer me to come live with them or give marriage proposal. I probably would still love her if she did not propose. Two other women in my past relationships made offers for me to move in with them but I declined them and over time I grew to hate them for it. I told them to go away and not contact me anymore because I want nothing else to do with them. This is just me but once a woman makes offers like that she becomes less attractive in my eyes and I usually want nothing more to do with them after that. I am more attracted to women who are not committed to the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
BooDar Posted July 6, 2006 Share Posted July 6, 2006 Timidity 99 wrote : "This is just me but once a woman makes offers like that she becomes less attractive in my eyes and I usually want nothing more to do with them after that. I am more attracted to women who are not committed to the relationship" Wrong thread...... You should post somewhere else...If I didn't know better I would say, "I smell a Troll" !!! Get on with your life, and leave women out of it please..... You want to be nothing but a Boy Toy..... Link to post Share on other sites
J dub Posted July 9, 2006 Share Posted July 9, 2006 "I smell a Troll" !!! What does that mean, when someone says that? What is a troll on these threads? I know, I'm an idiot. Link to post Share on other sites
bella_girl Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 a 'troll' refers to someone looking to pick a fight or start conflict just to see if people will take the bait and respond. Link to post Share on other sites
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