phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 I think she likes you and you need to stop doubting yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Listen : If I were 13 years old I would not do the stuff she is doing UNLESS I liked you Putting a pencil on your head ( yea your both just 13 ) and all the other stuff she does. ....I can gaurantee you THIS : IF she didn't like you she would say Ewhhh all the time and totally not talk to you and treat you like a creepoid. ! I say She likes you . !! She is young and so are you so this means you guys haven't figured eachother out because you are both young and inexperienced. Next time she does something funny DO SOMETHING FUNNY BACK ! Seize your moment ! Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 see? she likes you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 23, 2006 Author Share Posted May 23, 2006 you do not understand..i only say she doesnt like me, because she talks with everyone... even the most annoying people in my class!i have seen her hug alot of people too...i saw her kiss someone a long time back. i saw her, then after she kissed the guy she saw me then started to laugh, cover her mouth, and blush at the same time. i have also seen some guy 1 arm hug her around her neck. she wasnt doing anything tho. but my point is, she is nice to everyone... (execpt my 2 friends. she and her friend are really nice to me, but not to them because they annoy her and her friend. she still talks to them tho.) so yea... she practically hugs all of her friends. but still... i dont even think she has put a pencil on anyones head before as she was standing with her friend and i was sitting... it was really really really REALLY weird.. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 So she's a nice person and a bit flirty. She does spend a lot of time playing with you so there must be an attraction on some level. Besides the school year is almost over. Why not just ask her out? God that's my cure all for the day. But seriously. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't feel the same and you move on. You barely talk to her as it is. And what's the best thing that could happen? She says yes and you have a good time. Doesn't sound bad to me at all either way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 23, 2006 Author Share Posted May 23, 2006 well i was really shy when i had to present... 1. im nervous when i have to present 2. she was up there holding my poster... besides, i bet her guy friend (the one that hugged her) already asked her out to friday's dance.. its not like a girl as pretty as her would even like me =P Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Well girls are strange. You might think you're not attractive and she might think you're the cutest thing ever. And you don't know for a fact if that guy asked her out. Ask her anyways. This is what I think. If you're that scared then that's ok. I mean when I was your age I would've never tried to ask a guy out. But then I didn't have a guy who flirted with me like this girl does with you. And she seems like a real nice girl. So if you do ask her out and she doesn't feel the same she would let you down easily. Or don't ask her out. It's not a bad thing. It's just that you seem like you have a chance so if it were me I'd go for it. And shyness sucks, but once you get it over with it feels so much better. Like when you do a speech...don't you feel so much better after you're done? Like you could've screwed up real bad, but once you're done you don't care anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 23, 2006 Author Share Posted May 23, 2006 actually i dont feel like that at all. after i have to present something, i feel like doing it again and again. (or maybe it is how i feel) and i didnt know she was flirting.. (if she is) i dont even know what flirting is! ^_^ i dunno why i just cant go up to her and tell her "do you want to go to the dance with me?"i think its because i fear rejection... i dont want her to tell her friends.. and im not scared... im REALLY scared... because they will ask her "why do you want to go to the dance with him?" Link to post Share on other sites
DarkDwarf Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 You need some dating/flirting 101. The first point I make is flirting is "To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures". That is the official definition. It is when you, for instance, put a pencil on someones head. That would be flirting in middle school. I don't suggest putting a pencil on someones head when ur 20. Flirting, when used by early teens (12-14) normally indicates that they like you. From that age on (15+) it is normally harmless, but indicates that the person is at least slightly attracted to you (You would'nt with someone who is really ugly, No offense to the ugly people out there ) Second Point. Flirting Takes Balls. It also takes balls to ask someone out. Flirting with people you know is a lot easier than flirting with people that U dont know. More into flirting with strangers later. You just have to say something. Then you start talking then you start flirting, but it should come natuarlly. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is what you should do tommorow. Go up to her after your first class and ask her if she wants to go to the dance with you. Say "Hey personsname I was just wondering if you wanted to go to the dance this friday." She will say yes. You don't need to worry about it. DONT LET THIS GIRL TORTURE YOU. Just close your eyes and imagine how perfect u will be together and ask her. You don't need us to tell you that she likes you because she does. Just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 24, 2006 Author Share Posted May 24, 2006 what about the guy she hangs out with? she said (in the conversation in the last few posts which i overheard ) that she isnt going out with him, but that she knows he likes him. P.S: I dont think she has balls... you said flirting takes balls, but i dont think she has any... but i understand what you are trying to say Link to post Share on other sites
DarkDwarf a Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Don't worry about the other guy. Just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 24, 2006 Author Share Posted May 24, 2006 I REALLY dont think she likes me.. and i think she hates me.. heres the story, nothing happened first period, at second period we didnt talk, but i went over to the table with my friends and her and then talked to my friends, again, i didnt talk to her or her to me. then at third period, i thought up of a plan. when i would go to fourth period, i would say hi to her then i would ask her to the dance. unfortunatly, my teacher let us out late... and as i was gonna pass, i saw her talkin to her guy friend. i dunno wat they were talking about, but tell me tell you this, neither of them were laughing. so i didnt ask her then. then last period came. we were gonna play jepordy. it was boys vs girls, girls on one side and girl on the other. i asked if i could quiz her and she said "uhhh.... sure.." like if she wasnt sure or something. so i was doing that, then my stupid friend started to talk to me she turned to her friends and then studied with them. i was angry, but luckly i can control myself so i quized him. then i noticed something. she was all cheery and happy and stuff when we were playing. (we lost like always) so then the end of the class was coming. i really wanted to talk to her so i made something up. i said "You put a pencil on my head." as i pointed her with my pencil. the only thing she did was look at me for a second then turned around. i do not know what i have even done to her... heres the proof that she doesnt like me AND hates me! I knew this was coming anyways... she hates me right? Link to post Share on other sites
DarkDwarf Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 God Dammit. Quit Doubting Yourself. If your friend doesn't know that you like her now I would tell him. Next time he does it kill him or something like that. No she doesn't hate you. You just said something REALLY stupid. You have to be smooth. What you did must have sounded retarted to her. I wouldn't have known to say either. but luckly i can control myself so i quized him. I would have turned around and called him a dumbass and told him to go the f*** away. That girl hates him doesn't she? She might have liked it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 what ever... tommorrow is the last day i can ask her anyways... and i dont think i can Link to post Share on other sites
DarkDwarf Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 God. These things are so hard towards the end of the school year. Never enough time. I asked out my first true love on graduation day. God she looked beautiful... Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 it wasnt the my friend that she hates... it was my other friend. i really think she doesnt like me... i mean, i know that if i ask her tommorrow shes gonna say no... so why even ask? Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 it wasnt the my friend that she hates... it was my other friend. i really think she doesnt like me... i mean, i know that if i ask her tommorrow shes gonna say no... so why even ask? :mad: ENOUGH ALREADY! Why ask? Because you like her. Because one day when you're 30 something and you're both married with kids...you'll run into her again. You'll tell her, "I used to have the biggest crush on you". And she'll smile and say, "me too". And you'll both look at each other with sad eyes and think WHAT IF. Ask because you've got nothing to lose and a chance to experience something that could be real nice. If you're not going to ask then stop analyzing things. If you're so sure she doesn't like you then stop thinking about her and asking why she does what she does, because it doesn't matter. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 you know what? i am going to fckin prove to you that she doesnt like me. il go ask her tommorow and there will be proof. Link to post Share on other sites
Nirvanac218 Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 Better watch out man, one thing girl will do if they think you like them is take advantage of you. Cause you cant so no to someone you like. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 25, 2006 Share Posted May 25, 2006 Better watch out man, one thing girl will do if they think you like them is take advantage of you. Cause you cant so no to someone you like. he can worry about that later. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 25, 2006 Author Share Posted May 25, 2006 AHA!!! PROOF THAT SHE DOESNT LIKE ME!! here is my whole day. first period = nothing second period something interesting happened.i was trying to catch her looking at me and i think i did once... she was stretching in her chair and doing stuff with her hair and we i think we both looked at each other.. im not sure tho but i really think she was looking at me. i know i was looking at her! ok so third period, i did the same little plan that on the way to 4th period i would ask her to the dance... guess what? i didnt see her so then came last period. The Magical period . this is what happened there. we had to quiz each other on for the test, but i was to shy to ask her to study. so i studied with my friends.after we studied, we had to turn in our packets so i did. on my way back i really think it was an accident, but she lightly kicked me as she was turning back around in her desk. she said sorry i said it was ok. then, i forced myself to ask her what she got on her project. she told me sadly, 75/100 (i got 90/100 ) so then we took the test. but before we did she told me she wanted to get an A in it. so then i finished and turned it in. as i was heading back to sit in my chair, she didnt see me, but she scoot back in her chair and stood up ( like we all do) we both said sorry at the same time =P then we had to work on something else. we helped each other and stuff. i asked her what number she was on she answered. we couldnt find one so we had to make one up. then she found it and she poked me. she said "oh my gosh its right here!!" so then i looked then she said, oh wait i have the right thing written down! then she yayed silently. we went back to work. then something squeaked and i turned to see what it was. so then she turned around and gave me some kind of look.. (head was down but her eyes were looking at me) i think she did some other stuff too but i dont remember. anyways, we had to correct the tests. I asked if anyone needed a pen, and she said she did. (I think she has one tho) after we finished grading them we got them back. she got all hyper and stuff and told friends what she got. I asked her what she got and said 100%. I said that I got 100% too. After I told her, she yayed (she also did this after asking her friends) Then we had to go back to work on our previous work. I was working, and she for some reason kinda tapped me on the back with her pencil. I just ignored it. Then I was working and she whispered “I got 100% on my test.” I said “Nooooooo, no you didn’t” so then we kept working. I asked her again what number she was on and answered. Then the teacher explained our homework to us. After I listened, I went back to work. She poked me again and told me “Test review, test review test review, I have to do 3 tests tomorrow.” As she pointed to each test review. I said so do i. (same classes, different periods.) she did a lot more stuff, but I don’t really remember it all. We just talked about the work when we had to do it. She poked me and asked me where I got an answer for the homework. But like I said, she was hyper… and I do not remember what else she did. So there you go, the proof that she doesnt like me... oh and i saw her hug her guy friend on the way to class. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 Listen to the playa! That is such a great name. But really he's right. Anyways, Lollerskates... your post made no sense at all. There was nothing in there that showed that she didn't like you. You didn't even ask her out. LAME!!! What it did show is that you need to work on your social skills. I don't get why you ignored her so many times. Let me tell you what she'd do if she didn't like you. If she hated you. She wouldn't talk to you. She wouldn't poke you. In fact she would try really hard to get away from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 26, 2006 Author Share Posted May 26, 2006 i never ignored her... i always said something.. and i didnt ask her out because i didnt see her in passing peroid... and how is that not proof that she doesnt like me?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lollerskates Posted May 26, 2006 Author Share Posted May 26, 2006 remember what i told you... she is nice with everyone... she talks to everyone too... Link to post Share on other sites
DarkDwarf Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 I say nobody gives this kid help until he asks her out. Then we can help you with your relationship. You need to stop doubting yourself and relize several things. She Likes You She doesn't not like you So she hugged another guy. She didn't kiss him. I have female friends that kiss me all the time. It doesn't matter. ASK HER THE f*** OUT. JUST DO IT. WE DON'T WANNA HEAR ABOUT HOW YOU THINK SHE HATES YOU. WE WANNA HEAR A) HOW SHE SAID YES or B) HOW SHE SAID NO!!!! NOTHING ELSE Link to post Share on other sites
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