grlygirl Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I've been dating a collegue, long distance for 2.5 months. We see each other every two weeks. I have been somewhat passive allowing him to make all the moves. He was planning our weekends a couple of months in advance and wanted to go on vacation with me to spend more time together. He would even send me MLS listings and would tell me I should move to his city..... Everything has been amazing. He tells me he thinks I am the perfect woman for him and potentially the "real deal". There have been no warning signs that anything is wrong. One morning, he woke up feeling "trapped" and "anxious". He doesn't know why this came over him and needed a couple of days to think about things. A couple of days later, he emails me to tell me that its taken everything for him not to pick up the phone and call me. He misses me so much and has grown attached to me. He is so sorry for hurting me but doesn't know why he "freaked". He calls me that night and says he has talked to everyone that knows him to get insight into is "anxiety". He talks to his sis-in-law who tells him to take a 2 week break from me with no contact to step back and assess the situation. He asks me if this is okay and that we'll discuss our plans for the following weekend after we've talked. He told me he would email me the morning of "14" and we'll take if from there. He says he been crying and can't stand losing me but doesn't know why he feels this way. Is the break an easy way to break up with me because he couldn't bring himself to do it? Our talk is only 5 days away....I am anxious and hurt. I don't want to talk to him if he just wants to break up.....i don't know wether to move on, and if he comes back, should i take him back? Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
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