Why did I tell him?

[lostsmile]

I think I made such a mistake. I told MM that I have been having EA with that my husband and I were having trouble. Told him that I wanted him to know and tell him myself instead of just letting him hear it on the street. We live in same small community. We just met again 3 weeks ago today and had sex! Felt like there was so much between us! We both said that we knew it probably shouldn't happen again. However, ever since I told him about H and I, he is acting very different. I tried calling him today, and he acted mad that I was bothering him. Is this because I told him about husband and I possibly seperating? Does he feel threatened now? Should I just leave him alone and see if he calls me back?

[Mistaken Identity]

You had sex today and you called today and he acted annoyed? He might be experiencing guilt, and may act differently a day or so from now. And how is it that he didn't know you and H were having trouble? Why else would you be having an EA. Oh, wait, now it's an A because you had sex. Anyway, I have three pieces of advice:

 

1. Dump the MM now before you go any further.

2. If you have kids, try to work on your marriage. (I was in your same situation, married and having an EA. It did't last, and now my H and I are trying to make another attempt at it. I should've just skipped the EA experience altogether.)

3. Post on the Other Woman forum where they can offer some experienced insight.

 

Good luck!

[Marcus as the Peanut]

While you dident have a problem with your Husband, you ware SAFE!!!

 

But now , your not SAFE at all....And thats probobly becuse you ware

 

just a Pieace of ass to him.. Im sorry, not traying to be rud ....

[Marcus as the Peanut]

He got what he wanted and then moved on , i sugest you do the same

 

 

and try to find your way back to your husband