Guest Posted June 8, 2006 Share Posted June 8, 2006 If a man cannot miss a social engagement because his friends will call him p-whipped, what's going to happen if they tell him he's p-whipped when he won't get a lap dance? Or get a blow job? Or have sex with her? He will say you can trust him, but he has no reason not to lie. His friends will lie for him. These friends sound like they'll think it's hilarious that you'd fall for it, and will enjoy knowing that you don't know your husband doesn't love you. Now, just going to the party doesn't mean that he's going to cheat. You know him better than strangers on an internet board. You know what goes on at bachelor parties. You can either trust him or you can't. I am having a huge problem about my fiance having a bachelor party with a stripper. Mostly because, as you said, what happens when they get there, & thier friends continue to call them pussy-whipped when they don't go as far as they want. I don't like the idea of the lap-dance. It is too far. I understand the draw to look at women. We're pretty, but the idea of some woman grinding on my future husband literally makes me sick to my stomach. He did'nt want the party to begin with, & his friends have insisted. I think women allow this "tradition" to happen much to freely, & it's not right. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 9, 2006 Share Posted June 9, 2006 I am having a huge problem about my fiance having a bachelor party with a stripper. Mostly because, as you said, what happens when they get there, & thier friends continue to call them pussy-whipped when they don't go as far as they want. I don't like the idea of the lap-dance. It is too far. I understand the draw to look at women. We're pretty, but the idea of some woman grinding on my future husband literally makes me sick to my stomach. He did'nt want the party to begin with, & his friends have insisted. I think women allow this "tradition" to happen much to freely, & it's not right. i was in your same situation when i got married. his friends are not true and real friends, then if they insist on doing that. stand your ground. your marriage and relationship should be weighing on his mind not what his stupid friends think. Link to post Share on other sites
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