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tell the truth? or shut up and hang in there?


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OK, short and sweet.

 

We got married just over a year ago.

 

We fight alot!

 

We both get our feelings hurt, alot!

 

This is marriage #2 for me.

 

This is marriage #3 for her.

 

The kids are hers from her marriage #2.

 

I love her, I love the kids, I don't know if she loves me.

 

I am not happy, I don't want to hurt her, and i really don't want to give her divorce #3.

 

Any Suggestions?

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The way i see it is that if your not happy then you should sit her down and talk to her talking is a big part of a relationship . Ask her about her Feelings and what she feels about the marriage . From what you have said though seems to me that with all the fighting and you not knowing if she loves you then Maybe you two should end it Its not healthy to stay in a loveless marriage better to end it now than to go years down the road and then deside to end it either way best of luck to you !!!

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I don't know the circumstances of your other marriages but it sounds like ,you both want to take the easy way out instead of trying to work on it .Marriage isn't easy ,i have been married for 13 yrs this month and no it hasn't all been bliss,but we have to talk to each other about everything.Communication is key !Maybe you need time to get to know each other again ,u maybe need some alone time .But really try to work on it ,talk to her and see how she feels.

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