what if you are only getting half of what you want from an ex?

[murtucky]

ok, 2 good years, 2 bad years, on and off for another year, broke up 8 mos ago. tried for 3 mos. no go. finally NC- roughly two months...

 

she comes back, calls me 4 times a week, invites me out sparingly, its been 3 weeks, decides she wants to be intimate first date but when i balk, she tells me she has another offer that might be good for her...what will be will be stuff. powered through 3 or 4 more dates...she's hot and cold.

 

i find myself falling again, but disappointed again... i feel like i am being tested, and being intimate is only when SHE wants it, which is rare...

 

i am a very romantic and sexual person...and i get very frustrated with her. she is what i want, but she will only communicate with me when i pull away...i don't like the effect it has on me, and i feel her focus is only about her....any ideas?

 

i am getting clouded and cannot tell if she is "down"...i want a relationship with her...

[westernxer]

i feel her focus is only about her....any ideas?

 

That says enough right there.

[murtucky]

so what do i do with this bia....

 

she is relentless with her pursuit of me...but then only gives me about half when i show interest...she moved about 10 blocks away from me.

 

gimmee some bottom line, hard core, straight to the point guidance brotha... i dated her for 4 1/2 years....she looks fantastic (every thing i could possibly want asthetically) but is like jessica simpson...clueless as hell.

[westernxer]

Pump her and dump her.

 

Then she'll really go psycho on you.

[GB111]

Use her as a sex toy. Get another woman for a relationship.

[scobro]

jessica simpson.

 

If she looks like Jessica I would pump her and pump her forget about dump her.