Bo_Jingle_Jangles Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I have a feeling that this thread is going to get a lot of crap! But, here goes nothing... I was just wondering what all the hype is about having affairs? Now I have two theories here, the first is the thought of 'creation'... of course with religious beliefs it is definately wrong to have an affair. Because that is your belief and the Bible says it a sin. Then there is the theory of 'evolution'... we are all creatures who are wired to procreate. It all stems down to the birds and the bees. Not very many animals are monogomous. Humans are probably one of the very very few animals that "choose" to be monogomous. Note how I said "choose", though I don't think we were at all meant to be with one person in one lifetime. We all have a natural instinct to 'procreate' which is why we find others attractive even after marriage. I think it's silly that one person would get jealous while the other acts out their urges. I think you can love more than one person in a lifetime and more than one person at a time.... we 'just don't' because the way life has been for us all and the beliefs we were taught are to "stick with only one"... I think it's ridiculous! I am christian however I am in between the evolution/creation theories... there are WAY too many unanswered questions on both topics that I find myself somewhere in the middle... however (and maybe you think I am heartless) but I don't think we were by far made to be with only one partner in a lifetime. We all have that natural instinct to be with people.... otherwise we wouldn't become attracted to that wonderful man/woman that sits across from us at work. It's just not possible anymore. Affairs have been around for centuries! It's just almost impossible to stay monogomous.... especially nowadays! I don't think that there is one man or woman who hasn't thought about sleeping with that cute person that they click with at work or wherever. Sure, you can control yourself.... but the thoughts in your head don't usually go away. There is a reason we have pheromones. There is a reason women still wear makeup to work even after marriage. There is a reason men get mad at the loss of hair.... because we all want to look good to attract the opposite sex..... think about it.....We're all animals!!!! And animals have the urge and instinct to sleep around and get laid. Link to post Share on other sites
enoughisenough Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Do not get married or move to southern utah or colorado city. That's what you should do. If you don't think you have the strength to control your instincts, then those are your options. Most women will not be willing to accept an open marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Anyone who really knows anything about evolution would not describe it has having WAY too many unanswered questions compared to the fairy tale of genesis. Fairy tales are for children who do not have the capacity to relate to abstract ideas… So if you want to talk about partner selection form an evolutionary stand point that is fine but don’t forget we also have brains and we are not simply slaves to our emotions. Link to post Share on other sites
Guitar Wizard Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 I have a feeling that this thread is going to get a lot of crap! But, here goes nothing... I was just wondering what all the hype is about having affairs? Now I have two theories here, the first is the thought of 'creation'... of course with religious beliefs it is definately wrong to have an affair. Because that is your belief and the Bible says it a sin. Then there is the theory of 'evolution'... we are all creatures who are wired to procreate. It all stems down to the birds and the bees. Not very many animals are monogomous. Humans are probably one of the very very few animals that "choose" to be monogomous. Note how I said "choose", though I don't think we were at all meant to be with one person in one lifetime. We all have a natural instinct to 'procreate' which is why we find others attractive even after marriage. I think it's silly that one person would get jealous while the other acts out their urges. I think you can love more than one person in a lifetime and more than one person at a time.... we 'just don't' because the way life has been for us all and the beliefs we were taught are to "stick with only one"... I think it's ridiculous! I am christian however I am in between the evolution/creation theories... there are WAY too many unanswered questions on both topics that I find myself somewhere in the middle... however (and maybe you think I am heartless) but I don't think we were by far made to be with only one partner in a lifetime. We all have that natural instinct to be with people.... otherwise we wouldn't become attracted to that wonderful man/woman that sits across from us at work. It's just not possible anymore. Affairs have been around for centuries! It's just almost impossible to stay monogomous.... especially nowadays! I don't think that there is one man or woman who hasn't thought about sleeping with that cute person that they click with at work or wherever. Sure, you can control yourself.... but the thoughts in your head don't usually go away. There is a reason we have pheromones. There is a reason women still wear makeup to work even after marriage. There is a reason men get mad at the loss of hair.... because we all want to look good to attract the opposite sex..... think about it.....We're all animals!!!! And animals have the urge and instinct to sleep around and get laid. No, not all of us are animals. See, some humans (Fewer and fewer these days it would seem) have a thing called "Intelligence". Humans are unique in that aspect. Now, this intelligence allows us to actually THINK about our lifestyle, and as a whole species, we can deem what is right and wrong as a collective. So, there are Humans, and then there are Animals. You, are an animal. Frail and weak-minded, self-centered and you will probably frolic in your meaningless and idiotic existence until all your sins catch up with you in the long run, and you meet your maker. Humans choose to stay monogamous out of things like "Love", something which animals cannot understand. People that only care about themself are the reason the world will one day end. Thoughts of self-pleasure with no remorse or caring to the consequences that will befall themselves or others. It’s acts of love, caring, and selflessness that have the possibility of redeeming the human race in the end. But, people like you just add more problems to an already troubled world. So please, stop trying to make such an idiotic argument about how "Everyone is an animal, lets all screw-screw-screw till we die!" You’ve done nothing here but piss people off and embarrass yourself, because your lifestyle is below the expectations of a member of the human race. Link to post Share on other sites
Guitar Wizard Posted May 19, 2006 Share Posted May 19, 2006 Do not get married or move to southern utah or colorado city. That's what you should do. If you don't think you have the strength to control your instincts, then those are your options. Most women will not be willing to accept an open marriage. HEY! Whats wrong with Colorado City? Link to post Share on other sites
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couchmonkey Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 Hi, this is my first post. I've seen the evolution angle (excuse) on cheating plenty of times while lurking on these boards. I don't think that most people that use it fully understand what it entails. Then there is the theory of 'evolution'... we are all creatures who are wired to procreate. It all stems down to the birds and the bees. Not very many animals are monogomous. Humans are probably one of the very very few animals that "choose" to be monogomous. Note how I said "choose", though I don't think we were at all meant to be with one person in one lifetime. We all have a natural instinct to 'procreate' which is why we find others attractive even after marriage. I think it's silly that one person would get jealous while the other acts out their urges. I think you can love more than one person in a lifetime and more than one person at a time.... we 'just don't' because the way life has been for us all and the beliefs we were taught are to "stick with only one"... I think it's ridiculous! think about it.....We're all animals!!!! And animals have the urge and instinct to sleep around and get laid. Yes, according to evolutionary theory we are simply animals but, you see, you are only describing some of our instincts involving procreation. Most evolutionary scientists agree that most animals are out to get the better deal. What this means is that males are wired to mate with multiple partners and create multiple genetically diverse offspring. The females of many species are geared toward quality. Often times this means multiple partners. You have the partners that are more domestic and likely to provide resources and then the untamable ones that are genetically stronger or more fit. The cuckold bird is a good example of this. So yes, your statements on these instincts would be correct. However, procreation is not simply a numbers game. Animals are also territorial. Males will typically compete in a violent fashion in order to reproduce. How often do you see animals chase off competition in order to insure that its genes are passed on? It is also in our very instinct that we attack and even sometimes kill outside threats. Most animals do not want to waste its time and resources on something that is not its offspring and will even goes as far as eating them. So, is that how humans should behave? Is that the world you want to live in? Not me. I'm not terribly religious but much of dogma was an early incarnation of law and law is the foundation of civilization. You see, humans, being conscious and capable of rational thought, developed civilization in order to get out of the jungle, to avoid the brutal pitfalls that wild animals deal with everyday. You're argument that evolution says its okay for you to screw another mans wife or cheat on yours is flawed because it also means that it is okay for these other parties to try to stop you in a violent way. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 i bet you make a lovely gf sweetheart, just lovely. Link to post Share on other sites
spazgirl Posted May 21, 2006 Share Posted May 21, 2006 I have a feeling that this thread is going to get a lot of crap! But, here goes nothing... I was just wondering what all the hype is about having affairs? Now I have two theories here, the first is the thought of 'creation'... of course with religious beliefs it is definately wrong to have an affair. Because that is your belief and the Bible says it a sin. Then there is the theory of 'evolution'... we are all creatures who are wired to procreate. It all stems down to the birds and the bees. Not very many animals are monogomous. Humans are probably one of the very very few animals that "choose" to be monogomous. Note how I said "choose", though I don't think we were at all meant to be with one person in one lifetime. We all have a natural instinct to 'procreate' which is why we find others attractive even after marriage. I think it's silly that one person would get jealous while the other acts out their urges. I think you can love more than one person in a lifetime and more than one person at a time.... we 'just don't' because the way life has been for us all and the beliefs we were taught are to "stick with only one"... I think it's ridiculous! I am christian however I am in between the evolution/creation theories... there are WAY too many unanswered questions on both topics that I find myself somewhere in the middle... however (and maybe you think I am heartless) but I don't think we were by far made to be with only one partner in a lifetime. We all have that natural instinct to be with people.... otherwise we wouldn't become attracted to that wonderful man/woman that sits across from us at work. It's just not possible anymore. Affairs have been around for centuries! It's just almost impossible to stay monogomous.... especially nowadays! I don't think that there is one man or woman who hasn't thought about sleeping with that cute person that they click with at work or wherever. Sure, you can control yourself.... but the thoughts in your head don't usually go away. There is a reason we have pheromones. There is a reason women still wear makeup to work even after marriage. There is a reason men get mad at the loss of hair.... because we all want to look good to attract the opposite sex..... think about it.....We're all animals!!!! And animals have the urge and instinct to sleep around and get laid. how can you say you are christian? i didn't know there was an in between when it comes to evolution vs. creation theories. my bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Bo_Jingle_Jangles Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 how can you say you are christian? i didn't know there was an in between when it comes to evolution vs. creation theories. my bad. yes there is... and no, not your bad... my good LMFAO.... i will screw who i want when my crotch tells me to. my instincts tell me when someone is attractive and i go by what i see. My crotch leads the path for which i follow. be it your wife, your gf, mother, sister, or legal daughter... i will go when my crotch tells me to. my sperm would like to reproduce and their eggs would like to also. i am an animal... hear me roar.... RRRROOOOAAARRR! Link to post Share on other sites
enoughisenough Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Colorado city, az= polygamist haven Link to post Share on other sites
typical Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 I am fecking sick to death of people trying to skirt around being loyal in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
little_girl Posted May 28, 2006 Share Posted May 28, 2006 I have a feeling that this thread is going to get a lot of crap! But, here goes nothing... I was just wondering what all the hype is about having affairs? Now I have two theories here, the first is the thought of 'creation'... of course with religious beliefs it is definately wrong to have an affair. Because that is your belief and the Bible says it a sin. Then there is the theory of 'evolution'... we are all creatures who are wired to procreate. It all stems down to the birds and the bees. Not very many animals are monogomous. Humans are probably one of the very very few animals that "choose" to be monogomous. Note how I said "choose", though I don't think we were at all meant to be with one person in one lifetime. We all have a natural instinct to 'procreate' which is why we find others attractive even after marriage. I think it's silly that one person would get jealous while the other acts out their urges. I think you can love more than one person in a lifetime and more than one person at a time.... we 'just don't' because the way life has been for us all and the beliefs we were taught are to "stick with only one"... I think it's ridiculous! I am christian however I am in between the evolution/creation theories... there are WAY too many unanswered questions on both topics that I find myself somewhere in the middle... however (and maybe you think I am heartless) but I don't think we were by far made to be with only one partner in a lifetime. We all have that natural instinct to be with people.... otherwise we wouldn't become attracted to that wonderful man/woman that sits across from us at work. It's just not possible anymore. Affairs have been around for centuries! It's just almost impossible to stay monogomous.... especially nowadays! I don't think that there is one man or woman who hasn't thought about sleeping with that cute person that they click with at work or wherever. Sure, you can control yourself.... but the thoughts in your head don't usually go away. There is a reason we have pheromones. There is a reason women still wear makeup to work even after marriage. There is a reason men get mad at the loss of hair.... because we all want to look good to attract the opposite sex..... think about it.....We're all animals!!!! And animals have the urge and instinct to sleep around and get laid. bravo 2 u 4 saying it how it is !cuz we are alot like animals, except ducks & geese they mate 4 life Link to post Share on other sites
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