Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Okay, so you all remember about that date I had last weekend, right? The guy who was super attentive, a true gentleman, had flowers waiting for me at the table when we met for dinner....remember? Anyway, he was SUPER attentive and quite respectful. Didn't try to cross any lines but was VERY interested in me and told me just that. Truly, my wish was his command.... Anyway, my cell phone rang last night at midnight and I looked on the caller ID. It was him. He would NEVER call me that late at night, so I picked up thinking there was an emergency. It was his bunny-boiler ex-girlfriend. Drunk. Said that she was through with "D" and that we can quit sneaking around! WTF? He told me he broke with her months ago and that she was "taking it hard." I asked if he was with her and if I could speak with him on the phone. She said "No, I don't think I will let you talk with him right now..." I hung up on her. Yes, between my xMM, my married bug guy and now THIS joker, my life truly is a comedy of errors! What's next? And, I thought that rattlesnakes were the snakes I needed to be worried about here in Arizona. Seems like ALOT of snakes have come out of hibernation and taken residence around my house, huh? Don't they know that I HATE snakes and destroy them if they disturb my world?! WA P.S. I have no interest in this guy, but STILL....WTF? Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Okay, so you all remember about that date I had last weekend, right? The guy who was super attentive, a true gentleman, had flowers waiting for me at the table when we met for dinner....remember? Anyway, he was SUPER attentive and quite respectful. Didn't try to cross any lines but was VERY interested in me and told me just that. Truly, my wish was his command.... Anyway, my cell phone rang last night at midnight and I looked on the caller ID. It was him. He would NEVER call me that late at night, so I picked up thinking there was an emergency. It was his bunny-boiler ex-girlfriend. Drunk. Said that she was through with "D" and that we can quit sneaking around! WTF? He told me he broke with her months ago and that she was "taking it hard." I asked if he was with her and if I could speak with him on the phone. She said "No, I don't think I will let you talk with him right now..." I hung up on her. Yes, between my xMM, my married bug guy and now THIS joker, my life truly is a comedy of errors! What's next? And, I thought that rattlesnakes were the snakes I needed to be worried about here in Arizona. Seems like ALOT of snakes have come out of hibernation and taken residence around my house, huh? Don't they know that I HATE snakes and destroy them if they disturb my world?! WA P.S. I have no interest in this guy, but STILL....WTF? I don't know if I should laugh or cry. Its truly unbelievable!! Hmmm... what's next? a visit to the tatoo parlour who will put a no MM sign on your forehead? Some men are totally sick. Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I'm just disgusted! Men! Hah! Who needs 'em! This is enough to turn me into a lesbian! And if they did know any better, they'd know what you would do to them for messing around with you, you fearless hacker!! Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I'm just disgusted! Men! Hah! Who needs 'em! This is enough to turn me into a lesbian! lol... mo... I was thinking just the same thing!! That, or commit myself to a monestary. Link to post Share on other sites
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 lol... mo... I was thinking just the same thing!! That, or commit myself to a monestary. oh no, no monastery for me! i like sex too much! Damn! i guess a woman won't do it for me!! Damn! freakin men! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 Ladies. I just have to laugh. And, I am laughing right now. They say you have to kiss alot of toads (or snakes) before you find the prince, but this is ridiculous! I can't wait to see what unfolds today.... Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Ladies. I just have to laugh. And, I am laughing right now. They say you have to kiss alot of toads (or snakes) before you find the prince, but this is ridiculous! I can't wait to see what unfolds today.... It can only get better, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 He called me. Apparently, they have been friends since the break up. She borrowed his car yesterday and he left his wallet and cell phone in the car.... Apparently, she got into his cell phone and saw my number and called it. He was horrified. Said that he has absolutely no feelings for her and that he was just trying to be her friend since she is having a tough time in her life now. Apologized to me over and over. Said he was embarrassed by her actions. Whatever. His mess. He'll need to clean it up. I'm out of it. I don't care enough to even care. WA Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 He called me. Apparently, they have been friends since the break up. She borrowed his car yesterday and he left his wallet and cell phone in the car.... Apparently, she got into his cell phone and saw my number and called it. He was horrified. Said that he has absolutely no feelings for her and that he was just trying to be her friend since she is having a tough time in her life now. Apologized to me over and over. Said he was embarrassed by her actions. Whatever. His mess. He'll need to clean it up. I'm out of it. I don't care enough to even care. WA You're right... it all smells very badly of FISH. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 You got it girl! How are you hanging? Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 He called me. Apparently, they have been friends since the break up. She borrowed his car yesterday and he left his wallet and cell phone in the car.... Apparently, she got into his cell phone and saw my number and called it. He was horrified. Said that he has absolutely no feelings for her and that he was just trying to be her friend since she is having a tough time in her life now. Apologized to me over and over. Said he was embarrassed by her actions. Whatever. His mess. He'll need to clean it up. I'm out of it. I don't care enough to even care. WA EXACTLY... Whatever! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 If it looks like a snake and crawls like a snake.... It must be a snake. Another one bites the dust. Geez, I'm getting pretty good at this, aren't I? What a dubious honor.... Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 WA.... Awe Man! I do believe it is the "age" we are all at! It's that phase where married couples and even Singles tend to re-evaluate their lives. Everything at this age is fair game, or so it appears! All we can do WA is stay grounded with knowing who and what we are! I have to admit, I did get a chuckle from this because it does appear you and I have been somewhat parallel.....*laughing* Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 Cheers Reality Check! I truly just HAVE to laugh. And the funny thing is...I don't ever go looking for these men. They find me. And I am not even looking for a relationship right now. Maybe someone put snake bait around my house....could it be my married bug guy? Thank God for my optimistic attitude, huh? Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 WA.... Absolutely! Rise above all the s***! I have also wondered if I have it written on my forehead.... "Seeking man of any kind, to make me a whole person"....*laughing* NOT! Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 You got it girl! How are you hanging? I'm having a real pig of a day, thanks for asking. This NC thing isn't the easiest thing in the world. Three weeks tomorrow, though. If I can do three weeks, I can do ... however long it takes till I stop feeling like crap. Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 WA.... Awe Man! I do believe it is the "age" we are all at! It's that phase where married couples and even Singles tend to re-evaluate their lives. Yeah... I think that's what it is. My friends who know about my situation told me I am suffering a MLC. WTF!!! I'm only 33! Anyway, I would rather it be put the way you did, RC. I prefer to look at my separation last year as a re-evaluation of my life and that MM came in when I was most vulnerable. Everything at this age is fair game, or so it appears! Yeah, in this game, its ok to lie, cheat and steal. All we can do WA is stay grounded with knowing who and what we are! Exactly. Get this, I'm away next week. xMM is coming by and asking me questions and then there are these awkward silences. I think he's waiting for me to spill where I'm going to be next week. Like I'd tell him... I have to admit, I did get a chuckle from this because it does appear you and I have been somewhat parallel.....*laughing* Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 There is so much s*** in my life right now my blue eyes are turning brown! Hugs to you! WA Link to post Share on other sites
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I'm having a real pig of a day, thanks for asking. This NC thing isn't the easiest thing in the world. Three weeks tomorrow, though. If I can do three weeks, I can do ... however long it takes till I stop feeling like crap. Sami, you can most definitely do it. 3 weeks is ALMOST ONE MONTH! Can you believe that? Congrats! Take it week by week... if that's too much, day by day... if that's too much hour by hour. You're doing more than fine. Be proud of yourself!! We're all here for ya. PM me if you need me. Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Thanks ZARA! "almost one month" is what I am telling myself too. Feels more like six months . Still having to do it hour-by-hour some days. Like today. I miss him so much. Thanks for being here, everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 I'm having a real pig of a day, thanks for asking. This NC thing isn't the easiest thing in the world. Three weeks tomorrow, though. If I can do three weeks, I can do ... however long it takes till I stop feeling like crap. Dear friend, They say it takes three weeks to break an addiction. You are almost there. Remember how empowered you feel with each passing day that you are sticking with your convictions. You are going to come out of this successfully! You are awesome and we are all here to back you up and support you. Huge hugs to you. :bunny: WA Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Sami.... Hold tight girl! I was 5 1/2 months NC and believe me the feelings do tend to re-group. I can't say they go away, they just become different somehow. I know I didn't experience the same as you with my exMM, but the feelings were there nonetheless. Your doing great! Link to post Share on other sites
Sami_D Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 Thanks, all... I REALLY appreciate it Link to post Share on other sites
rossm Posted May 17, 2006 Share Posted May 17, 2006 I'm just disgusted! Men! Hah! Who needs 'em! This is enough to turn me into a lesbian! Hey, we're not all bad! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Share Posted May 17, 2006 Yep, you are right! YOU are cool! Too bad you're married... Link to post Share on other sites
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